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Drynites96 said:Well I didn't have bedwetting issures back then. The bedwetting started around two years ago because of a lot of Stress and pretty bad Nightmares. It doesn't happen that often (maybe once or twice a week)
And... *sigh* You're kinda right. I do hide behind it a bit... But that doesn't mean that it doesn't happen sometimes.
I´m glad we clarified that.
It is understandable that you try hiding behind it to an extend as bedwetting is far more accepted than AB/DL.
I can just repeat my self - let all the info sink in. Make yout heat about it and come at peace with yourself. Then you can explain yourself better to your mother.
Maybe she can understand you better then. And if she understands it, it will also give you more resolve.
Since your family knows about it you could maybe actively work on your wearing issues by putting them on in your room and then brush your teeth and do your bedroutine. Just wearing them in combination with a (long)t-shirt.
Summer is a perfect time for this. In this rather short timespan someone of your family might see you or not at all. But you can use this small moments of partially "exposure" to work on your feelings.
Everyone knows, so where is the problem?
Also in the morning, if it´s not too full, wear it for breakfast but put something over it. It must not conceal everything perfectly, but it shows some "decency" towards your family. These are small exercises that are not extreme in any way and you can incorporate them in daily life and working on it in a social acceptable way. It is important that you do not overextend this and keep it on a scale. That might be a way to better cope with it until you move out and have more private space.
Just a suggestion, it´s up to you to decide how and if you approach it.
Cheers