This is a question that comes up often. Unfortunately it isn't an easy question to answer. And to get that answer, there are a few big variables that need to be answered first.
First, you need to understand what diapers even mean to you individually. Do you wear them as part of a kink or sexual fetish? If yes, then you need to realise this is a very private thing for you. Anything which is solely based on sex is something that should be kept to your bedroom. And the only person you should be telling is your significant other.
Or perhaps do you more closely identify as a DL? That is to say, are diapers a type of love for you. One where you are inexplicably compelled to wearing them, and trying to deny that only leads to a binge purge cycle of even self loathing. Keep in mind though, as with any type of love it can certainly include sexuality but is not solely based on it.
Perhaps maybe you're just an AB or little though. Do you like wearing diapers as a means of coping or stress reduction? Keep in mind that while a full AB is in pursuit of getting away from adult things, sex included, there are many levels and variations that again can certainly still include sex but are again not solely based on it.
So now you have a slightly better understanding of what diapers mean to you. Maybe a little of each even. If it's mostly just a sexual "activity" you like to engage in, or it's more than that. For a majority of us though, diapers are a literal part of what makes us who we are. And as with any other part of us (be it lgbtq, an extrovert/introvert, or whatever), that part is not healthy to keep it hidden away. So yes, there are some people you should tell.
Now that you've answered that part, the next question comes up. So who should we be telling anyways? Well, it's a bit of a loaded question in itself, but can be boiled down to anyone you're very close with. So who is that?
Well, it can be a parent, spouse, or even a friend. But one of which you can trust with your inner desires, or maybe even just someone you feel will stick by you once they know, and still won't judge you for loving diapers. Alternatively, this could also mean physically close in a platonic way (such as living with them).
All too often we hear stories of someone who tried to keep their diapers hidden, but were still found out because they were outed one way or another. The truth is, sooner or later this is almost always going to happen when you live with someone for long enough. It is something you need to plan for and expect to happen. And when it does, there's an unfortunately high chance that person will find out without understanding your reason for why. They will jump to some bad misconclusion, and make things much worse for you. The "option" of not telling may seem less scarry than coming forward first, but know that taking control of that situation before it happens is almost always going to be better for you in the long run.
Sadly, not all parents and friends will be that close to us. Even when living with them, we know they are prejudice or short minded. For them, it's often best to keep them at a slight distance and not fully include them in your life. Even if only for the time being, and in the mean time you may want to work towards improving you living situation or life without them around so much. So back to the question of who to tell, well only you can figure out that part. And no amount of advice or past stores can really help you make that decision.
Ps. Good luck and hope this quide helps you some. Oh, and once you've answered the question don't just jump into blindly telling someone you wear a diaper. There is more preperation, research, and even tactics to help with telling others- but that's for a whole different topic.
First, you need to understand what diapers even mean to you individually. Do you wear them as part of a kink or sexual fetish? If yes, then you need to realise this is a very private thing for you. Anything which is solely based on sex is something that should be kept to your bedroom. And the only person you should be telling is your significant other.
Or perhaps do you more closely identify as a DL? That is to say, are diapers a type of love for you. One where you are inexplicably compelled to wearing them, and trying to deny that only leads to a binge purge cycle of even self loathing. Keep in mind though, as with any type of love it can certainly include sexuality but is not solely based on it.
Perhaps maybe you're just an AB or little though. Do you like wearing diapers as a means of coping or stress reduction? Keep in mind that while a full AB is in pursuit of getting away from adult things, sex included, there are many levels and variations that again can certainly still include sex but are again not solely based on it.
So now you have a slightly better understanding of what diapers mean to you. Maybe a little of each even. If it's mostly just a sexual "activity" you like to engage in, or it's more than that. For a majority of us though, diapers are a literal part of what makes us who we are. And as with any other part of us (be it lgbtq, an extrovert/introvert, or whatever), that part is not healthy to keep it hidden away. So yes, there are some people you should tell.
Now that you've answered that part, the next question comes up. So who should we be telling anyways? Well, it's a bit of a loaded question in itself, but can be boiled down to anyone you're very close with. So who is that?
Well, it can be a parent, spouse, or even a friend. But one of which you can trust with your inner desires, or maybe even just someone you feel will stick by you once they know, and still won't judge you for loving diapers. Alternatively, this could also mean physically close in a platonic way (such as living with them).
All too often we hear stories of someone who tried to keep their diapers hidden, but were still found out because they were outed one way or another. The truth is, sooner or later this is almost always going to happen when you live with someone for long enough. It is something you need to plan for and expect to happen. And when it does, there's an unfortunately high chance that person will find out without understanding your reason for why. They will jump to some bad misconclusion, and make things much worse for you. The "option" of not telling may seem less scarry than coming forward first, but know that taking control of that situation before it happens is almost always going to be better for you in the long run.
Sadly, not all parents and friends will be that close to us. Even when living with them, we know they are prejudice or short minded. For them, it's often best to keep them at a slight distance and not fully include them in your life. Even if only for the time being, and in the mean time you may want to work towards improving you living situation or life without them around so much. So back to the question of who to tell, well only you can figure out that part. And no amount of advice or past stores can really help you make that decision.
Ps. Good luck and hope this quide helps you some. Oh, and once you've answered the question don't just jump into blindly telling someone you wear a diaper. There is more preperation, research, and even tactics to help with telling others- but that's for a whole different topic.