Looking to see how many people participate in wearing diapers and/or baby roleplay for their partners, but arent into it themselves. Last year I told my girlfriend about my diaper fetish and she reacted relatively positively. I have her wear diapers, mostly Goodnites, about once a month, where I will just say "I want to put a pullup on you", and she just says "okay" and wears it for as long as I ask. Its almost entirely sexual for me, and I know although she isnt into it herself she tolerates it because she likes making me happy. Sometimes I will ask her to diaper me, and she does, but these scenarios always end after we have sex, then the diapers go away.
I want to start roleplaying a little further and explore my slight AB side, including bottles and feeding. I feel I can equally enjoy either role of being in diapers or diapering her. Im just not sure which role she would rather have. I have asked her before if she prefers when I wear, and her answer was not clear, but I suspect that me wearing makes me appear less masculine and dominant, and I sense she does not like this part. When she wears I feel she just doesnt think about it and then enjoys the benefits of my heightened sex drive. However, I have experienced her to initiate a sexual encounter when I was diapered with her, and I believe she enjoys the control I try to give her, and enjoys not having to wear a diaper herself. So I cant decide. I dont think she will ever give a straight answer, leaving me to take charge on this topic.
Does anyone have expereince with reversing roles, or participating in roleplay and having a preferance for either role?
I want to start roleplaying a little further and explore my slight AB side, including bottles and feeding. I feel I can equally enjoy either role of being in diapers or diapering her. Im just not sure which role she would rather have. I have asked her before if she prefers when I wear, and her answer was not clear, but I suspect that me wearing makes me appear less masculine and dominant, and I sense she does not like this part. When she wears I feel she just doesnt think about it and then enjoys the benefits of my heightened sex drive. However, I have experienced her to initiate a sexual encounter when I was diapered with her, and I believe she enjoys the control I try to give her, and enjoys not having to wear a diaper herself. So I cant decide. I dont think she will ever give a straight answer, leaving me to take charge on this topic.
Does anyone have expereince with reversing roles, or participating in roleplay and having a preferance for either role?