I don't now if I've seen a update to any of the other topics about this. But is there a discreet diaper out there that can work with nearly any clothing. I would really like to use a tape one but I also wouldn't mind a pull up style. TIA
abkelster said:I don't now if I've seen a update to any of the other topics about this. But is there a discreet diaper out there that can work with nearly any clothing. I would really like to use a tape one but I also wouldn't mind a pull up style. TIA
BabyTyrant said:Well if you layer your clothes properly you could have the discreet look with basically any diaper...
Better to wear thicker diapers and run a small risk that somebody may guess that you are wearing diapers (and any decent stranger wouldnt ask you anyways), than to be wet and have that embarrassment if somebody notices ...)
Brsilva said:I can vouch for this. I bought some pull up style and they leak well before they should, there are not meant for my issues(Abriflex m3). On days where I really can't be leaking I cut the pad out of the abena, cut some slits in the backing and put it in a depends tape brief. It does get really bulky because the whole abena pad gets used but no one notices, honestly my wife doesn't either.
Most people ate stuck in their own little bubble. Unless there's something obvious that grabs there attention,( crackling diaper sound, your shirt rides up and exposes your diaper. Ect.) I'm my experience no one notices and if they do they don't care. I deliver beer, I interact with lots of people regularly throughout the week, no one had noticed. I believe no one will, as long as I keep my pants dry.
BabyTyrant said:I think most people probably think that people they see wearing Diapers are doing so out of need and they probably feel sorry for them.
I mean unless they see a babyish design and are aware of the ABDL community; but this is probably pretty unlikely to occur with most people (most people might think it's odd but not say anything)
Pull ups can't hold a wetting. Discreet is through clothing. Long shirts and we'll fitting pants.abkelster said:I don't now if I've seen a update to any of the other topics about this. But is there a discreet diaper out there that can work with nearly any clothing. I would really like to use a tape one but I also wouldn't mind a pull up style. TIA