Try living in a non-English speaking country...I mean, I know I'm not the only one here, but the chances that I'm just gonna run into a fellow Little are practically non-existent. There are some people here that have me wondering, but I am aware that they've probably never heard of ABDL and I'm not really close enough to any of them to introduce them to it.
Actually, I've been kind of testing the waters with this one person (this may not be the perfect thread for this story, but I'm gonna tell it anyway):
So I've started sewing my own onesies a while back cause it's just easier for me than ordering them (and I have a weirdly long torso, so these actually fit). I was talking to this one girl from my university about sewing and I showed her pictures of stuff I made. Now this girl, she would be the perfect mommy in my opinion. She has a very calm attitude and often does stuff like pet my hair or call me adorable, or generally makes me feel small and safe (which is a feat in itself, given that I'm taller than her).
Then I showed her this "bodysuit" (onesie) I made. So, I made some that could definitely pass as just normal grown-up clothes, without babyish prints or anything. This one...not so much.
It even has that kind of foldover neckline like on actual baby onesies, so it's not exactly subtle
But alas, she simply asked me what I would wear it with and praised my skill with sewing. I should probably add that I'm known for wearing more childish clothing in general, so it's probably not that unusual for her. But maybe, if we grow closer as friends, I can tell her about this one day.