makena43 said:I think you say," I use the bathroom too many times and when I am in town its hard to find one. Another could be I have prostate problems." is that okay? What if they keep pounding you ? And lastly try to make you stop?
vietnamesebabyboi said:Its really depends on the situation, like if you got caught wearing diapers under your normal clothes like ur mum saw the bulge of the diaper, Its best , at least for me, to say something like "mum I know it is weird and embarrassing but I lost a bet with my one of my friend so I have to wear a diaper to school" and also act natural. She probably going to tell you to take it off and tell you to take her to ur friend for some talks, so at this point try whatever u can u stop her from doing this! u could say something like "mum don't you going to ruin our friendship" or "mum don't interrupt our business he also lost a bet and he has to do something embarrassing too (perhaps wearing a dress or wear makeups to school)". remember the more stress and anxiety you're showing the more suspicious she will be
If your mum found you wearing diapers at home and at night, I suggest you tell her that you wet bed sometimes and you need protection. You can also say something like "mum Ive been having a lot of wet dream lately and I don't want to wake up messy and smelly, and I really don't want you to touch that stuff while doing the laundry", that is what I told my mum when I got busted once. If she found diapers under ur bed or ur hiding place just tell her that you need the materials inside of the diapers for a science experience, you can say something smart like "the absorbent materials like hydrogel and sodium polyacrylate from a typical diaper can help create chemical reaction which hydrogen bonding which can help build my new way to create the classic erupting volcano experiment", you should get away with that excuse pretty easily
Slomo said:The problem with excuses is they only work once, and when you lie you are also cornering yourself into maybe having to proove that lie. Plus, if you get caught again, now that person knows you lied to them before anyways.
It's always best not to go this route.
Slomo said:You risk morally degrading yourself while also alienating those around you.
tiny said:I disagree. It entirely depends on who you're telling, why they're asking, and how discreet they are.
If your mum discovers you a few times and you make up some silly excuse, it saves the embarrassment of talking about something as private as being ABDL. After a few times of showing innocent concern, she may well get the idea that this is something you do, and it's none of her business.
That's pretty much how it worked with my parents. I was discovered; they were concerned; I told them everything was fine; they discovered me again; I told them again that I was fine and didn't have any medical problems. And from then on... they pretty much knew. They clearly thought it was a bit odd, but were happy that I hadn't dragged them in to a pointless and awkward discussion about something that should be private. And I was happy for the same reason.
Imagine a young kid finding a dildo in their parents bedroom. Do the parents explain exactly what it is, or do they come up with an excuse to save embarrassment?
Sometimes it's better to us your discretion. Some things are better left unsaid. Sometimes it's what's socially expected.
Huh? Are you saying that you should declare your diaper fetish to anyone who asks? Don't you think that would be morally degrading and alienating to those around you?
Knowledge is power. The more knowledge about yourself you give away, the more power other people have over you. Don't you have a moral duty to yourself to avoid public humiliation?
Hmmm....makena43 said:I think you say," I use the bathroom too many times and when I am in town its hard to find one. Another could be I have prostate problems." is that okay? What if they keep pounding you ? And lastly try to make you stop?