Str88jacketabdl
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Because I have a diaper fetish. Would you like to try one? Hands them puffy plastic disposable underpants with a big smile.
diaperedwetter said:I would just say: Why do people wear diapers in your opinion?
littlemoosey said:I'm laughing Dogboy, and at the same time wondering why we don't have, "knife control" ?
ST50 said:How many of you have actually been asked why you wear nappies?
ST50 said:How many of you have actually been asked why you wear nappies?
Slomo said:Nope. It's "because I need them".
This works for if you have a physical need, or a mental one. It is the TRUTH, either way.
There is no need for you to go into detals. IF, and I mean IF, someone keeps asking, just tell them it's personal and you don't want to into details (also true).
jellyjigger said:I don't understand all the fuss around supposed lying to such an invasive and rude question. If you assume an overweight woman is pregnant and ask when she's "due", most would agree you deserve any possible rude response or bodily harm that could result if she was obese and not pregnant. Likewise, anyone that has studied law knows lying is perfectly legal except when one has a legal duty (to the other party) to tell the truth - this essentially boils down to contracts and commerce; fraud is lying to another resulting in their peril, such that they would incur some type of damage based on the belief of your statements. This is why lying to an insurance company and possibly a doctor is different than lying to a friend or stranger waiting outside of the disabled toilets. You have no duty to provide details to a stranger about anything private going on underneath your clothing, even if they manage to sneak a peek, let alone the rate in which your yellow toenails grow per month.
But, if you are not truly incontinent, that doesn't mean you need to lie. Just work on a carefully crafted truthful response. I've combined the gist of many of the responses in this thread (and even added some of my own) for those who incontinent or not:
POLITE RESPONSES:
-"for medical reasons" (the psychiatric community conclusively agrees any sort of ABDL'ism/infantilism/fetishism is a mental condition)
-"from a bad accident" (whatever happened in your past to your knowledge or not resulting in ABDL tendencies, was certainly not intentional, right?)
-"because its better than the alternative" (one of my favorites - pick from many possible alternatives!)
-"because I need them" (why else would anyone wear a diaper if not to fulfill some need?)
-"because I wet the bed" (when you wet your diaper, would it not get the sheets all wet if it weren't there?)
-"because I don't like wet pants" (okay, maybe this would be a lie to some)
-"because I like to be dry [on the outside]"
-"because I respect [your/the] furniture"
-"why do you ask?" ... "I'm not sure I understand your reason for asking" (keep repeating the last sentence)
POSSIBLY IMPOLITE RESPONSES: (answering a question with another question is not lying either)
-"why do you think?"
-"why do people wear diapers in your opinion?"
-"do you not know what diapers are for?"
I particularly like what Angela Bauer (a DailyDiapers contributor) has said on the matter:
"I don't tell others that I'm incontinent. If really pushed I will say that I have a condition that forces me to wear diapers."
And finally, a famous quote from Cheryl Gartley; author of the 1985 book "Managing Incontinence" and founder of the Simon Foundation for Continence:
"If you ever wet and wear a diaper, you are incontinent."