Nice, I do this 2/3 times a month, I settle down to watch TV for the evening, don't hold or force, just let it come naturally, the build up is an amazing feeling, usually I experience a small low that stops, then about a minute later the big event which I couldn't stop no matter how hard I tried,
Many off us IF get "air time" it's thought that we should have as much to a 50/50 split between diapered and undiapered time as posdible for skin health.
So many times we will sit or lay on a Chux diaper less and hope the Chux catches it all. In long term care facilities they can't be bothered investing that kind of time in caring for patients, and at every change slather on a nasty expensive anti fungal chemical, which wouldn't be needed if they gave people air time and proper care, but caring is more expensive than the chemical , so forget that !