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I don’t know if this is the right place for this, but I hope so ^^” Anyway, I have a bit of a problem with my parents and I don’t know what to do. I’d really appreciate any advice.
Let’s start from the beginning: I used to wet the bed nearly every night until I was around 14-15, and then it stopped with only a few odd accidents per year. I used to wear diapers to bed until my bedwetting stopped, so I’m not a stranger to nighttime nappies. Anyway, I’m now 19 and around four months ago I started wetting the bed again. I still live at home with my parents and my younger sister.
My mom took me to the doctor, but she couldn’t determine why I started bedwetting again. It doesn’t seem to be any medical thing. So, since obviously I can’t wake up to a wet bed every day, I had to start wearing diapers to bed again. That’s not the problem really, I mean I’m a bit bummed, but I’ve worn diapers to bed for most of my life so...
The problem I have is that about two months ago my mom started insisting I wear diapers during the day as well. Now, I’ve always had a tiny bladder and sometimes I admittedly have to rush to the bathroom, but I haven’t had an accident in years and years. When I pointed this out to her, she said it’s ”her house, her rules” and that’s all the discussion we had about the subject. My dad is living away from home right now because of his work, so it’s just me, my mom and my sister. Don’t get me wrong, I am abdl and I like diapers, but I don’t want to wear them 24/7 and I like having the choice of when and where to wear them. My mom is making me wear them to class and everywhere we go, and the thing that bothers me most about it is that she acts as if she’s purposefully trying to humiliate me. I’m sure she’s not, but it sure feels like it. She won’t let me change by myself, and instead of always doing it herself, she lets my sister change me sometimes. Can you imagine how utterly humiliating that is?
I’ve tried talking about this to her, but she says I’m just being a teenager who gets embarrassed about everything and that I’m being overdramatic. It’s like she believes she’s fixing a problem that doesn’t even exist in reality. I don’t have any problems with my bladder during the day, but she insists I need diapers. Not only that either, but she treats me differently after I started bedwetting again. It’s like I suddenly got 10 years younger in her eyes; a good example of it was when we were driving home from a relative’s house a few weeks ago (it’s about 3 hours by car), and she kept asking me every 15 minutes if I needed to use the toilet, as if I couldn’t feel it myself and say something if I needed to go. And at home she continuously checks my diaper, as if she’s expecting it to be wet all the time. I mean, why does she even feel the need to check it!? If I did wet it, which I haven’t so far done, I would tell her I need it changed. Or better yet change it myself, if she would let me <.<
Anyway, she’s being stubborn about this and I don’t have a clue of what I should do. I don’t want to be in diapers all the time, and I’m already an adult so I don’t need her and my sister treating me like a toddler. Before someone suggests I move out... well, my parents don’t want me to work because they believe I should focus on my studies - which means no money of my own. I can’t exactly move out with 10€ in my bank account. But tbh I’ve thought about getting a job anyway and starting to save up to be able to move out.
Anyway, until I can do that, any other advice that could work?
Let’s start from the beginning: I used to wet the bed nearly every night until I was around 14-15, and then it stopped with only a few odd accidents per year. I used to wear diapers to bed until my bedwetting stopped, so I’m not a stranger to nighttime nappies. Anyway, I’m now 19 and around four months ago I started wetting the bed again. I still live at home with my parents and my younger sister.
My mom took me to the doctor, but she couldn’t determine why I started bedwetting again. It doesn’t seem to be any medical thing. So, since obviously I can’t wake up to a wet bed every day, I had to start wearing diapers to bed again. That’s not the problem really, I mean I’m a bit bummed, but I’ve worn diapers to bed for most of my life so...
The problem I have is that about two months ago my mom started insisting I wear diapers during the day as well. Now, I’ve always had a tiny bladder and sometimes I admittedly have to rush to the bathroom, but I haven’t had an accident in years and years. When I pointed this out to her, she said it’s ”her house, her rules” and that’s all the discussion we had about the subject. My dad is living away from home right now because of his work, so it’s just me, my mom and my sister. Don’t get me wrong, I am abdl and I like diapers, but I don’t want to wear them 24/7 and I like having the choice of when and where to wear them. My mom is making me wear them to class and everywhere we go, and the thing that bothers me most about it is that she acts as if she’s purposefully trying to humiliate me. I’m sure she’s not, but it sure feels like it. She won’t let me change by myself, and instead of always doing it herself, she lets my sister change me sometimes. Can you imagine how utterly humiliating that is?
I’ve tried talking about this to her, but she says I’m just being a teenager who gets embarrassed about everything and that I’m being overdramatic. It’s like she believes she’s fixing a problem that doesn’t even exist in reality. I don’t have any problems with my bladder during the day, but she insists I need diapers. Not only that either, but she treats me differently after I started bedwetting again. It’s like I suddenly got 10 years younger in her eyes; a good example of it was when we were driving home from a relative’s house a few weeks ago (it’s about 3 hours by car), and she kept asking me every 15 minutes if I needed to use the toilet, as if I couldn’t feel it myself and say something if I needed to go. And at home she continuously checks my diaper, as if she’s expecting it to be wet all the time. I mean, why does she even feel the need to check it!? If I did wet it, which I haven’t so far done, I would tell her I need it changed. Or better yet change it myself, if she would let me <.<
Anyway, she’s being stubborn about this and I don’t have a clue of what I should do. I don’t want to be in diapers all the time, and I’m already an adult so I don’t need her and my sister treating me like a toddler. Before someone suggests I move out... well, my parents don’t want me to work because they believe I should focus on my studies - which means no money of my own. I can’t exactly move out with 10€ in my bank account. But tbh I’ve thought about getting a job anyway and starting to save up to be able to move out.
Anyway, until I can do that, any other advice that could work?