I'm having urge incontinence problems. I was sent to a urologist by my gp. Like any specialist in my area appointments are at least 6 + weeks out. Anyways I broke down and bought prevail per fit, they work but leak deepening on how bad I let go and are only good for an episode or 2. I bought some Abri flex 3 thinking more absorbent capacity would help prevent leaks. They do, but only for the first episode or so. It seems like the more absorbent the less " gushing" they will take (i.e they are meant for content leaking.) I am a delivery driver, my job is very physically active. Do I need to change after every episode or is there something that would work better? The Abri flex 3 hold way more than I lose in a day so capacity isn't a problem there. Any help would be appreciated.