The root of your problem, is that you want to wear diapers around others, even though it makes you feel uncomfortable. I have to ask why do you want to something that makes you miserable. In reality it seems you have let it consume you that you are back on here everyday obsessed that you are going to be exposed to this and that individual. My friend this seems to be consuming you that you think all reactions from your co workers,and your bosses are about your diapers. You don't need to be worrying about how to feel better about wearing diapers with skulls on them at your place of employment, You need to worry about how to function in society so you can keep your job. You don't need to go off the deep end because you are so worried about having the fact you are wearing diapers exposed.
My suggestion leave the skull diapers at home, wear the Tranquility ones, at least you can explain those away as incontinence, if you are exposed. Just stop trying to put yourself in uncomfortable situations and tell us it is progress. You are no better than you were when you started posting here. As to getting girls, asking random girls on Facebook to date you is going to get you nowhere. The other problem, is your terrible writing and language skills. I am sorry but something that looks a four year wrote it is not going to get you a lot of girls. The girls wants to be able to carry on a decent conversation, not try to interpret what you wrote.