TabulaRasa2017
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Hi everyone,
I hope your Thanksgiving holiday (here in the states) was good and you had good food and company.
Not a long thread, but just passing on something I'm learning as I have come to terms with this part of who I am. If you have family or friends whom you trust and who you know will keep your conversations private, it can be hugely liberating to tell them about your ABDL side. Depending on the person or people involved, what you tell them and the extent of what you tell them will vary.
In the past year, I have opened up and told all of my siblings and a number of very close friends about my ABDL side, and it has for the most part been a very freeing experience and a relief - like letting go of a dark secret and walking into the light. It has made a huge difference in my own self perception and self confidence.
Now, please, always remember that this is a very vulnerable and (for a majority of us) a private part of who you are - not everyone deserves to know this nor should know this for a whole variety of reasons hashed out in other threads here at ADISC.org and elsewhere. You must be very discerning as to whom you invite into this vulnerable inner circle. But with those whom you can communicate this to, you may be surprised at how accepting and non-judgmental people can be. If they love you, they want you to be happy, and they will convey that to you.
For me, sharing this with people I trust and love has been transformative for me. It certainly took a lot of courage on my part, and it took me decades to get to this point. But I'm glad I did. So I wanted to pass that on to anyone else who may be at a similar point. If you trust the person and the friendship/love is there, you may be surprised by what transpires.
Be well everyone.
I hope your Thanksgiving holiday (here in the states) was good and you had good food and company.
Not a long thread, but just passing on something I'm learning as I have come to terms with this part of who I am. If you have family or friends whom you trust and who you know will keep your conversations private, it can be hugely liberating to tell them about your ABDL side. Depending on the person or people involved, what you tell them and the extent of what you tell them will vary.
In the past year, I have opened up and told all of my siblings and a number of very close friends about my ABDL side, and it has for the most part been a very freeing experience and a relief - like letting go of a dark secret and walking into the light. It has made a huge difference in my own self perception and self confidence.
Now, please, always remember that this is a very vulnerable and (for a majority of us) a private part of who you are - not everyone deserves to know this nor should know this for a whole variety of reasons hashed out in other threads here at ADISC.org and elsewhere. You must be very discerning as to whom you invite into this vulnerable inner circle. But with those whom you can communicate this to, you may be surprised at how accepting and non-judgmental people can be. If they love you, they want you to be happy, and they will convey that to you.
For me, sharing this with people I trust and love has been transformative for me. It certainly took a lot of courage on my part, and it took me decades to get to this point. But I'm glad I did. So I wanted to pass that on to anyone else who may be at a similar point. If you trust the person and the friendship/love is there, you may be surprised by what transpires.
Be well everyone.