I thought I'd chime in here. I've been wearing diapers off and on for my entire 50 years. My urge incon is pretty severe and I've tried every major disposable brand, including all the ABDL brands.
For the last 3 years, I've worn Northshore Supremes day and night almost exclusively, which means I've gone through approximately 2,000 very wet and, yes, sometimes messy diapers. During that time, I have had maybe 5 leaks, had some tape issues on maybe 1 out of every 50 diapers and had a couple diapers fall apart on me. Those fails are almost all due to flooding over the inner cuffs because I was probably pointing to the side, accidentally getting Desitin cream on the front tape area and very strenuous exercise. I am a very busy, very active person. For me, Northshore Supremes are one of the best diapers you can buy. The only diaper that wicks better is a cloth diaper and they are far more bulky. If I were to change one thing, just one thing, it would be adding an inch or two to the height, but that's being nit picky.
It's a really good diaper and every time I've spoken to them on the phone, really good service. Thanks Northshore!