hubbylover
Contributor
- Messages
- 1
- Role
Hello, I am a newly wed and my husband recently told me that he is a diaper lover. He told me he felt like a weight had been lifted, but that he felt two feet tall and he was extremely freaked out by the fact that I wasn't running for the hills.
I am extremely okay, and not freaked out one bit about his fetish. I'm an anthropologist, and deeply aware of the complexity of human sexuality. I simply want him to believe me when I tell him this and him not to feel ashamed to ask me to join him or to do it whenever he feels inclined.
So, I'm here to learn what I can about his interests in an attempt to show my solidarity and support. He's the love of my life and this changes nothing between us, except perhaps will lead to us being closer and more intimate.
I explained to him that I am happy to experiment with him if he wants to involve me, or that it was completely fine if it's something he wanted to continue on his own. I explained that I can't guarantee that it is something I will like, but that doesn't mean he can't keep doing it himself.
To all non-DL partners out there, how do you provide support to your DL-loving partners? To the DL-loving people out there, what are things you wish your partners had said to or done for you when you first shared your interests?
I understand that some of what he's feeling and the fear he's feeling about my reaction.... trusting that I am really okay with this.... it's just going to take time, but in the interim, I want to make sure that I am not doing or saying things that will damage him or our relationship during this period of his greatest vulnerability.
My husband is the most amazing man I have ever met, hence why I married him. I am so happy to be his wife and I am genuinely okay with this, people are complicated and there is nothing disgusting or wrong with him or what he likes. I just want him to be okay with me knowing this and him to be okay with being him.
All the best,
hubbylover
I am extremely okay, and not freaked out one bit about his fetish. I'm an anthropologist, and deeply aware of the complexity of human sexuality. I simply want him to believe me when I tell him this and him not to feel ashamed to ask me to join him or to do it whenever he feels inclined.
So, I'm here to learn what I can about his interests in an attempt to show my solidarity and support. He's the love of my life and this changes nothing between us, except perhaps will lead to us being closer and more intimate.
I explained to him that I am happy to experiment with him if he wants to involve me, or that it was completely fine if it's something he wanted to continue on his own. I explained that I can't guarantee that it is something I will like, but that doesn't mean he can't keep doing it himself.
To all non-DL partners out there, how do you provide support to your DL-loving partners? To the DL-loving people out there, what are things you wish your partners had said to or done for you when you first shared your interests?
I understand that some of what he's feeling and the fear he's feeling about my reaction.... trusting that I am really okay with this.... it's just going to take time, but in the interim, I want to make sure that I am not doing or saying things that will damage him or our relationship during this period of his greatest vulnerability.
My husband is the most amazing man I have ever met, hence why I married him. I am so happy to be his wife and I am genuinely okay with this, people are complicated and there is nothing disgusting or wrong with him or what he likes. I just want him to be okay with me knowing this and him to be okay with being him.
All the best,
hubbylover