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So in the last 6 months I have gone to 3 ABDL events. The first one I was SOOOO shy. I didn't go to any of the special get togethers or after daytime things at all. The second I forced myself to attend just two - and one was great and the other was weird because of one daddy douche. My third I went with 3 friends and it was a blast, and I hardly slept with going to everything.

Out of all of it, there was one odd thing - and I need help with it. I had more than a few people tell me that I should avoid little for big (the store). No one would give me a straight answer, just told me to Ehhh - NO. I am still new in the community but what is the deal with this? one person told me they also have a porn site, another told me they will hound you for amazon reviews, and another said they got into it with being bigots to the transgender community. Can anyone give me any details? My father taught me well to never listen to rumors and do my own research, so this is odd to me. can anyone give me an answer? I'm okay with private mail on this - I just want to make an informed descision as I am buying my stuff (like I just bought a Keurig after the trumpists boycott of them). Thank you
 
I purchased a onesie from little4big, and while I dont use it as often as some of my other clothes, I see nothing wrong with the product, it was reasonably priced, seems to be decent material and arrived as I expected. I did not receive hounding messages for a review.

I personally am not a fan of their pacifiers, they are a bit thinner material for my taste and flimsy, however Another abdl friend of mine has ordered pacifiers from them and was completely satisfied.

Your father is right about rumors as well!

While Little4big is not my preferred store, I have absolutely no issues with my experiences with them.

I have also had great experiences with stores like baby-pants.com and ABuniverse.

If your looking for an ethical choice, rather then a monetary one, my advice is to go with the tried and true merchants who have made an effort to provide discounts, product development, and communication with the ABDL community.
 
Any recommendations on those tried and true merchants? I've only bought from freepaci.com so far and that was good, but now I want onsies and bottles.
 
I read a post on here about the fraud of freepaci.com. In short they top off the price of shipping was the gist of the post, so you are not actually getting a paci for free.

With this in mind, I have no personal experiences with freepaci.com, and I cant say how much water that accusation holds.

I have had wonderful experiences with ABUniverse, consistent discount messages up to 10-15% off for returning customers. at one point about 6 months ago, the tapes on their nappies were not sticking very well and coming unfastened, they gave me a discount on my next two orders, and I just used a bit of packing tape to make up for the issue. Abuniverse then made an effort to keep their customer's as a whole informed as they investigated the problem, found a solution and changed.

at one point with ABuniverse a few years back the old owner pretty much just stopped responding to the buyers and stopped shipping out products, the site developed an atrocious reputation, toxic is an understatement. however the old owners sold the company to new owners, and the first thing that they did with the public was make an effort to honor old sales that the old owner had left unfilled. I did not catch wind of this until after the 6 month deadline, but ABU was understanding and still shipped my old orders out to me.

with Baby-pants.com I have received fast shipping, their products were a bit costlier then others, but again the quality is there. they have been very open about issues with my orders and responsive. at one point I ordered a plastic bottle with a large nipple and they informed me that they did not have the color that I had ordered and offered to upgrade me to the glass bottles for free.

I dont have any experience with tykables, but I do know that the owner has made a visible effort to bring abdlism out of the shadows and make it a bit more main stream by opening a physical store. the owner has faced back lash for this, but at the same time, it is the owner reinvesting money from his passion into his passion.

I guess in the end it really depends on what you feel comfortable with, as you mentioned in your original post, you like to buy ethically, and well...its not really right for me to tell you what ethics you should have and how you should spend your money there may be ethics with the stores I have put forward that I am not aware of because I do not follow the news and boycotts of the same causes that you do.
 
Little4Big is one of the stores you hear all types of things about, first time I heard, it was underage models. Second was something about some type of 'pimp daddy' that treated his girls wrong, ect. I haven't heard the same thing from people that I think someone just got mad at them for some reason or the other and started spreading rumors. There are only a few sites I stay away from in ABDLand, and those either because of scams and shady business practices, or include minors...

As for quality, Little4Big is pretty cool. I have like six of their onesies and I love them. Daddy especially likes the 'sailor/school girl' onesies and the ruffle butt one I got.
 
MommyandMattling said:
I read a post on here about the fraud of freepaci.com. In short they top off the price of shipping was the gist of the post, so you are not actually getting a paci for free.


I actually got two orders from freepaci.com. I did one myself and the other was friend who bought from there as a gift for me. I myself ordered 5 pacis as it looked the same from another company. The total was $22.50 so I got them for $4.50 each. No it wasn't "free", but it was the best price I could find across all the companies selling pacis. I did get it super fast which was cool (I did a happy dance when I realized that it was my pacis in the box). I couldn't find any place cheaper - do you know of any?

I have two friends that get all of their diapers from ABuniverse, and promised to give me some to try :)

And Thank you MaM

Does anyone know of a Onsie with flowers? I would love to find a pretty one.
 
You might try the butterfly or kitty onesies from baby-pants, or a few different ones from onesies downunder. Can't find any that have flowers on them from the places I looked, but there are some cute non-flower designed ones.
 
Just saw this. It creeped me out, so much so I am rethinking a few things.
Why is the world filled with so many creeps, and shouldn't a little world be better? I think I'm going to take a break from all of this.
 
Frustrated - I posted a reply but apparently including a link to information of a group of people who could prove horrific behavior of an ABDL shop got <Moderated> and failed to be approved to post. I doubt this post will be seen either. I'm done with censorship.
 
Daniela said:
Frustrated - I posted a reply but apparently including a link to information of a group of people who could prove horrific behavior of an ABDL shop got <Moderated> and failed to be approved to post. I doubt this post will be seen either. I'm done with censorship.
I think posting links is a privilege for Established Contributors and higher, is all. Post more, and be here a bit longer, and you'll get there. :hug: We need to know if our companies are evil, and if you have information that could help us make better choices about who to give our money to, we'd love to have it. Just hold onto it, until you reach E.C.
 
Okies - will work on it :)
 
On a big upside - A friend told me about a new place - burlesquebabies.com . I'm in love with the metal shiny onsies and the Princess one. My friend is getting me the Christmas lights one for Christmas (he can never keep a secret from me. its adorable)

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SpAzpieSweeTot said:
I think posting links is a privilege for Established Contributors and higher, is all. Post more, and be here a bit longer, and you'll get there. :hug: We need to know if our companies are evil, and if you have information that could help us make better choices about who to give our money to, we'd love to have it. Just hold onto it, until you reach E.C.

here is what I found. The first seems corroborated (dunno how to spell that word) enough, the second is just analytical. Judge for yourself.
http://jennibellarella.tumblr.com/post/156362419547/littlelolikat-binkieprincess
https://reviewmeta.com/brand/littleforbig

ODU seems like good people, same with ABU (I'm learning acronyms now lol) although I read there was a previous owner of ABU that wasn't good, but the new folks seem good.
 
I've only ever heard about the scandal with them involving underage models, and they seemed really open about it. I remember on their site they had a message to the effect of "If you know for a fact any of these models are underage let us know so we can remove them." When I saw that it pretty much confirmed my original suspicion when I heard that story. I figured that they had a model that lied about her age and someone figured that out after the fact, and I don't personally hold them responsible for somebody lying to them about their age, they did their due diligence. It's the first I've heard of the owner acting shady like that. The evidence looks pretty cut and dry, but I'm still kind of skeptical, because messages like that are really easy to fake. Regardless I've got a few of their onesies, and I can't complain. They are pretty cute, but they come off as a little mass produced I liked the pacifiers, but the diapers weren't anything to write home about. Big selling point is that it's pretty cheap comparatively, and you get amazon prime shipping. I'll remain skeptical of these claims until I see more evidence or more concrete evidence.
 
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