Hi there
I am going to repeat what other have said.
With my Little Bro we did a lot of talking through first,
Although you are going to give your friend control you are still in control as well so the scoop need to be talked through
Isaac likes me to have a lot of control when we spent time together. I decided pretty much everything, letting him be in Little space, he is treated just as if he is a toddler, which he loves.
But I know when he is out of his comfort zone, and though it is Ok to push the comfort zone a bit as it makes being in Little space more fun to be told that you are going to have to do something that you are not sure about. It is not fair that this is taken so far that Isaac comes out of Little space.
The must have is a Safe word. Your safe word is the word that stops everything. If you need to say this word you will need to come out of Little space and talk about what is happening for you.
Really think about what you won't to get out of being care fore, and how far are you willing to go. Are you willing to let your friend give you a bubble bath and wash your body, put a diaper on you and put you to bed? Although this may sound wonderful now, think how you are going to feel when you are naked in front of them,
This is trust on a hold new level.
Well hope this is helpful to you, and hasn’t put you off as it is wonder full being carefore knowing that for a time someone else is going to look after you.
Siysiy