goody2shoes
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Hi All!
I'm new here and I joined because I'm trying to help my abdl boyfriend acept himself. I didn't know what abdl was before my boyfriend came out to me over 2 years ago and simce then I've been really intrigued! I'm so excited to play with this but he still goes through some seriois self doubt and self consciousness. I'm trying to be as supportive and encouraging as I can, sometimes I will even put on dipars to suprise him. The binge and purge cycles he goes through are kind of tough for me to handle because it means that sometimes we won't have sex for over a month. I'm as patient as I can be, but it's hard to know that he would rather read porn comics than have sex because he isn't comfortable with his own desires still. It's mainly tough because I want to paticipate and feel sexually deprived because it makes him unavailable. I'm really excited about exploring this with him and even bought myself and him a onsie, dipars, pacifiers and bottles, but he will use them once in a while but then retreat back into a purge cycle.
Does anyone have advice on how I could help him be mmore comfortable with himself or atleast not feel like he should be ashamed so we can play more often? Thanks for your help!
I'm new here and I joined because I'm trying to help my abdl boyfriend acept himself. I didn't know what abdl was before my boyfriend came out to me over 2 years ago and simce then I've been really intrigued! I'm so excited to play with this but he still goes through some seriois self doubt and self consciousness. I'm trying to be as supportive and encouraging as I can, sometimes I will even put on dipars to suprise him. The binge and purge cycles he goes through are kind of tough for me to handle because it means that sometimes we won't have sex for over a month. I'm as patient as I can be, but it's hard to know that he would rather read porn comics than have sex because he isn't comfortable with his own desires still. It's mainly tough because I want to paticipate and feel sexually deprived because it makes him unavailable. I'm really excited about exploring this with him and even bought myself and him a onsie, dipars, pacifiers and bottles, but he will use them once in a while but then retreat back into a purge cycle.
Does anyone have advice on how I could help him be mmore comfortable with himself or atleast not feel like he should be ashamed so we can play more often? Thanks for your help!