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Hi everyone!
I am just getting back into the online DDLG/ABDL community after a 5 year relationship and I am finding is that there seems to be a lack of support and resources for us older people, I'd say 35 and up. I think one of the reasons is that us older people don't think to use the apps such as Tumblr, Twitter and Snapchat. I just dove into all of those and honestly it's taking me a while to figure out how the heck to connect to people. I am posting but I'm getting no response and I'm really starting to think that it's my age.
I am a very normal in the vanilla world and a 56 year old daddy who is searching for a new little/ABDL and I'd really like to find someone a bit closer to my age for the simple fact that outside of the scene we would just have way more in common. This is not written in stone though because I do believe it all depends on the individual.
I think there may be a stigma towards us over 40 but guess what, we are all exactly the same no matter what age. Just like the newbies, we got into it at a very young age, in my case I was 6 when I had my very first trigger and started having thoughts of diapers and spanking girls who were naughty. It has always been part of me. I went through the aloneness, thinking there was something wrong with me, the nervousness of buying diapers for the first time, the secrecy, the shame, etc. These desires are part of us and it has absolutely nothing to do with age.
Just because we are older does not make us perverts. As a matter of fact, being a little or ABDL actually keeps you younger.
I have been faced with having to use Craigslist and Fetlife as the tools to try to find a true little who like me, has this secret part of themselves and is very genuine. Those 2 resources are really not that great in my opinion. I can tell you some stories but I will leave that to other posts.
Are there others here in the same boat? If so, I'd love to hear your experiences.
I am just getting back into the online DDLG/ABDL community after a 5 year relationship and I am finding is that there seems to be a lack of support and resources for us older people, I'd say 35 and up. I think one of the reasons is that us older people don't think to use the apps such as Tumblr, Twitter and Snapchat. I just dove into all of those and honestly it's taking me a while to figure out how the heck to connect to people. I am posting but I'm getting no response and I'm really starting to think that it's my age.
I am a very normal in the vanilla world and a 56 year old daddy who is searching for a new little/ABDL and I'd really like to find someone a bit closer to my age for the simple fact that outside of the scene we would just have way more in common. This is not written in stone though because I do believe it all depends on the individual.
I think there may be a stigma towards us over 40 but guess what, we are all exactly the same no matter what age. Just like the newbies, we got into it at a very young age, in my case I was 6 when I had my very first trigger and started having thoughts of diapers and spanking girls who were naughty. It has always been part of me. I went through the aloneness, thinking there was something wrong with me, the nervousness of buying diapers for the first time, the secrecy, the shame, etc. These desires are part of us and it has absolutely nothing to do with age.
Just because we are older does not make us perverts. As a matter of fact, being a little or ABDL actually keeps you younger.
I have been faced with having to use Craigslist and Fetlife as the tools to try to find a true little who like me, has this secret part of themselves and is very genuine. Those 2 resources are really not that great in my opinion. I can tell you some stories but I will leave that to other posts.
Are there others here in the same boat? If so, I'd love to hear your experiences.
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