SimCo
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I am just testing the waters with trying to meet other ABDLs like myself, and I need some advice. I am a 30 year old straight male and I am looking to meet an ABDL female to discuss our shared experiences. I am not looking for anything sexual right now, nor am I a creep desperately looking for a "mommy" to serve my needs. I am merely looking for a connection, and I am straight, so I feel like meeting with a male ABDL would be too homoerotic/weird for me right now.
Now I know that "male ABDL seeking female ABDL/mommy" probably describes 95% of all ABDLs on this board, and I understand what I am looking for is hard to find. I have tried ABDL.match.com, and while I like the format of the site in general, I am worried about scammers and the paywall seems like it would prevent me from ever meeting anyone (I even tried to sign up for a 3 month trial, but my payment was declined for no reason).
I know the "path of least resistance" would be to find a "normal" girlfriend and then ease her into ABDL. I feel like I could meet a girl, as I think I am a reasonably good looking young professional, but I am not looking for a strictly sexual relationship. Besides, on two occasions I have just scratched the surface of my ABDL side with past girlfriends, and both times it was not well received. I think the better course for me is try to find someone who shares my ABDL interests and try to build a relationship from there.
Any advice anyone could offer for my situation would be greatly appreciated.
Now I know that "male ABDL seeking female ABDL/mommy" probably describes 95% of all ABDLs on this board, and I understand what I am looking for is hard to find. I have tried ABDL.match.com, and while I like the format of the site in general, I am worried about scammers and the paywall seems like it would prevent me from ever meeting anyone (I even tried to sign up for a 3 month trial, but my payment was declined for no reason).
I know the "path of least resistance" would be to find a "normal" girlfriend and then ease her into ABDL. I feel like I could meet a girl, as I think I am a reasonably good looking young professional, but I am not looking for a strictly sexual relationship. Besides, on two occasions I have just scratched the surface of my ABDL side with past girlfriends, and both times it was not well received. I think the better course for me is try to find someone who shares my ABDL interests and try to build a relationship from there.
Any advice anyone could offer for my situation would be greatly appreciated.