I like wetting when I am walking and when I am in the flopped frog position while sitting. I used to really love wetting while laying down either on my stomach or on my back, but I haven't been able to start doing that again (requires more training). I prefer to mess while standing and moving slowly to a squatting position, while crawling and I just move slowly to a sitting position, or while laying down on my back with my legs folded close to my stomach. My bowels sometimes refuse to release into my diaper while my bladder is easier to manipulate. I have to push most times when emptying bowels into my diaper which can get uncomfortable after a while of pushing.