pampersguy said:
I will never understand why one must tell their parents about this. In most cases all you accomplish is troubling them. I can see why you would want to do it while still living at home. But this is a limited time and when you are out on your own you will have all the time for it...
Now, I do want my kids to trust me and to tell me everything that's on their mind...but stuff like this just doesn't concern me. It's so private and intimate.
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I will never understand why one must tell their parents about this. In most cases all you accomplish is troubling them. I can see why you would want to do it while still living at home. But this is a limited time and when you are out on your own you will have all the time for it...
Now, I do want my kids to trust me and to tell me everything that's on their mind...but stuff like this just doesn't concern me. It's so private and intimate.
Because for most abdl's, diapers are far more than just some sexual fetish that should be rightfully kept behind a closed door. Thry are more than a private or intimate thing too. It is a part of who we are. And if you intend anyone to know and accept you, then they will also need to know about this part too.
Plus, telling someone about abdl's in a controlled manner is almost always going to have a better understanding for them (where they actually benefit from this). AND, they should also be able to realise you are trusting an often embarassing and innermost thing that can make us feel vulnerable if abused or used against us. This level of trust we give them is anoter way they benefit, and can return it the same.
Further more, their knowing will trouble them less overall should they come across or stash or accidentally see or spot us being diapered. So yet another benefit for them knowing.
Then of course, there's our benefits of them knowing too. Less or no stress in trying to keep it hidden. No more problems with getting diaper shipments. And knowing we are accepted for who we are by them too.
Knowing all of this, it actually becomes more of a question of why you wouldn't tell those close to you about your diapers. Why wouldn't you want to trust and know what is going on in a loved one's life, or vise versa. And that is something which last a life time, not just while you're living with them.