How secretive is your kink on a scale of 1-10?

How scared are you?

  • I want the whole world to know and I have expressed my desires already to more than one

    Votes: 1 1.0%

  • I am not afraid of my diaper desires and am open to share them with anyone.

    Votes: 2 1.9%

  • I want to share my desires and most likely will at some point.

    Votes: 3 2.9%

  • I would openly share my desires with anyone who I trust but will take time.

    Votes: 22 21.2%

  • This desire should be shared but I am nervous about talking about it.

    Votes: 6 5.8%

  • I am somewhat guarded about my desires and it would take a special time and place.

    Votes: 20 19.2%

  • I am afraid of anyone I know learning about my desires but hope to share it openly.

    Votes: 6 5.8%

  • There is too much uncertainty about another's reaction so probably never

    Votes: 9 8.7%

  • I am very guarded about my diaper desires and only discuss them on forums.

    Votes: 32 30.8%

  • I am morbidly afraid of anyone knowing and do not wish to express it.

    Votes: 3 2.9%
  • Total voters
    104
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I ended up going with #9, as I honestly don't feel that anyone I know in person needs to know about my diaper fetish.
 
Probably a 5. There are people I'm willing to talk about it with, but not many. I don't advertise it at all, but I don't go to extreme lengths to hide it.
 
Eight!
 
I'm probably an 8 as I've told one person other than my wife. I really have no desire to share this with others and there would be no advantage as far as my needs go.
 
Hmm. I think I'd best describe myself as a 6. Plenty of other ABDLs know that I'm an ABDL (of course) and one non-ABDL friend once found out and it wasn't that bad. I don't go to quite the lengths I used to to hide this, but I still do hide it and am not planning on letting any more people who aren't part of the ABDL community to know.
 
The stories are so interesting regarding this poll. It seems that there is now a couple categories that are now in the majority.
 
Im like a 8 or 9. Not something I really care to share.
 
Maybe 4 or 6...
I learned that I can not hide this from everybody, so when I find a person who I really really trust, I share this.
There are like 3 persons who knows (all 3 are in BDSM, so it was easier to share).
The next step is one friend that is vanilla but is open-minded but I am still waiting for the right moment...
But, I don't want many people to know...this is personal, and it should stay personal.
 
Hm probably a 7 or 8. I want to be more open about it but so far only my best friend knows. I doubt I would ever tell anyone like my parents out of fear of being judged.
 
4. I've talked about it with a fair amount of people.
 
I chose 6 but in reality in college I told folks I needed to wear protection due to bedtime accidents. As I became dryer over the years I still wear and those that know understand I do it for security feelings of my past. I am not in college anymore so I do not offer this information until someone asks / notices and then I have no qualms explaining the background for me. Not a lot of my friends know this (I think).
 
Only a couple of people know for me, and that's the way it will stay.
 
The only person I desire to know about my fetish is my future SO, if I ever get the chance to meet someone special enough for that. Really that's the only person that actually needs to know.
 
Im totally at 7 right now.

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Definitely started as a 10, but now I'd say I'm more of like a 7 to 9. Two other ABDLs I know irl know, and of course forum members know. Other than that I haven't explicitly told anyone. I don't think my friends know, then again I wouldn't be surprised if they knew or at least suspected. I suspect my immediate family may have their suspicions as well. As I've gotten older and accepted it more (and gotten tired of hiding it), I feel less and less secretive of it. But I doubt I'll I ever feel like full on advertising it (to complete strangers at least)

If anyone asks about it though, I'd probably tell them
 
6-10
 
TheCaptain said:
If anyone asks about it though, I'd probably tell them
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I have fantasized about this many times. If.. only someone was keen enough to suspect it or magically connect the dots and ask about it.

Sometimes I think that it is better left as a secretive kink but the imagination wanders to the excitement of being discovered.
 
I don't really care if someone were to find out about it, a couple friends have via ye olde "porn still up when computer turns on" route and it's been whatever. (except for one prickish moment where one of my friends asked a car full of people, "what if the biggest badass you knew pretended to be a baby all the time? Like you're a party with this dude who's wearing baby clothes and a diaper but he ends up getting in a fight and kicking ass, what would you think?" Everyone was like "Wtf D? I don't know man, I guess it'd be weird." I think he was just trying to be funny but he shut up about it once he caught my deathstare from the backseat and didn't bring it up around me after that.)

But it's not something I would willing tell anyone who isn't a romantic partner. I'm not really embarrassed about it but I don't see the point in sharing my kinks with my friends. I don't want to know their kinks, I assume the feeling is mutual. If someone I know asks and isn't one themselves I wouldn't deny it, I just tell them it's none of their fucking business and I would be kinda pissed that at them for asking.
 
ilostthesheriff said:
I have fantasized about this many times. If.. only someone was keen enough to suspect it or magically connect the dots and ask about it.

Sometimes I think that it is better left as a secretive kink but the imagination wanders to the excitement of being discovered.
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In this day and age, people are much more aware of these "abnormal" idiosyncrasies (relative to a decade or more ago) that exist. I have a ton of stuffed animals and love cartoons and animations (most of my friends like cartoons and animations too though). So I feel it's much more likely for people to suspect it/connect the dots in these modern times.


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