Megabrick
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I recently discovered that I'm a Little, and all of the advantages/disadvantages that brings. However, I'm still curious as to why I have such a fascination with this side of me. See, the thing is, from what I've read so far, a lot of Littles and Adult Babies are the way they are because they had comfortable childhoods and stressful teen/adulthoods, with Little Space helping to cope with that stress and provide comfort.
Problem is, firstly, while I did have a comfortable(sheltered?) childhood(still sheltered for the most part), I can't quite remember it well, AND for some reason I am uncomfortable thinking about my childhood or being around children in general. Second problem is that I don't have a stressful adulthood. Because I haven't had any true 'adult' experiences, I don't have anything to stress about. I don't worry as much as other people do, and I don't generally feel like I need to cope.
The only thing that really lends credence to the fascination/interest/whatever I have in acting like/being treated like a four year old, is that when I was seven I rushed to grow up. I stopped playing with toys, stopped playing on the playgrounds, pretty much gave up any "childish" activities I had for some glorified image of being 'mature' and 'proper'(cold and no-fun), and being a Little is probably to 'make up for lost time'. Though, a bit younger than I had lost. (Interestingly though, I have always had more childish traits than I realized - including an inability to recognize subtle social cues).
Anyway, any thoughts on the matter? it would be great to get some guidance/tips from others who know more about this.
Problem is, firstly, while I did have a comfortable(sheltered?) childhood(still sheltered for the most part), I can't quite remember it well, AND for some reason I am uncomfortable thinking about my childhood or being around children in general. Second problem is that I don't have a stressful adulthood. Because I haven't had any true 'adult' experiences, I don't have anything to stress about. I don't worry as much as other people do, and I don't generally feel like I need to cope.
The only thing that really lends credence to the fascination/interest/whatever I have in acting like/being treated like a four year old, is that when I was seven I rushed to grow up. I stopped playing with toys, stopped playing on the playgrounds, pretty much gave up any "childish" activities I had for some glorified image of being 'mature' and 'proper'(cold and no-fun), and being a Little is probably to 'make up for lost time'. Though, a bit younger than I had lost. (Interestingly though, I have always had more childish traits than I realized - including an inability to recognize subtle social cues).
Anyway, any thoughts on the matter? it would be great to get some guidance/tips from others who know more about this.