Hi PinkLady,
welcome to the group. I'm glad to hear that by finding Adisc it has helped you feel "normal".
Could you tell us a little more about yourself? Things like your hobbies and interests, work or still studying? Do you have a partner and if so are they supportive? The more you open up about yourself the easier it is for members to see what they have in common with you. If you need some ideas have a look at the top of page and read the link called ADISC Intro, Rules & Tips. There is a lot of information in there for new members.
Having done all that, have a look through the various forums and find some you like, then jump in and take part. Don't be put off when you see that people have posted thousands of times, your opinion is just as valid as theirs and what you add may bring a fresh perspective to a thread or be just what someone needed to hear.
Finally, above all enjoy your stay with the group.