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    filthyboy

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    Hey guys, i decided to make this account because i am obsessed with diapers, i have a grand plan of buying them tomorrow at my local food mart place.

    I wanted to ask some questions. i have been a diaper lover since i can remember, of course for 90% of the time i have been living i have been learning about it. So of course i tried to remove it, i got successful for a while and i didn't think or do anything related to diapers for a long time. but the urge to have them took over and i did inappropriate things with my body and finally discovered what this fetish was and i embraced it. since i learned about what m* is i did it more and more often and i am totally addicted but throughout this year its been a bit weird with my fetish. every time i look at someone that looks cute or is sexually comforting i look up that persons look with a drop of diapers in the image. For example, I was on the bus browsing my phone and i saw a kid about my age or maybe even younger with curley hair and i found it attracting so when i got home i searched up "kids with curley hair in diapers," the same thing happened when i was watching a documentary that was related to japan, the girl was naked (obviously not on camera) but they had her shirt and clothes off to imply that she was naked, and then in my head that made me think of diapers, so when i went to bed i browsed on my phone and searched up "japanese girls in diapers"

    i know diaper fetish is not wrong

    but is me getting sexually turned on by things then me wanting to see them in diapers petophile like?

    please help guys

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    Also is this where i post stuff like this?
    Last edited by filthyboy; 02-Jul-2017 at 11:11.

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    1 unless your under 18 (in which case you shouldn't be on here) it wouldn't be pedophilia looking at someone your own age. 2 Lust comes in many flavors.

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    filthyboy

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    sorry, about my response i have never been a good writer. What I mean't to say is, people around my age and younger................

    i fixed it up

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    If you find yourself sexually attracted to children, and think you may EVER act on it, get help. That is never acceptable, under any circumstances. Period.

    Now, you mentioned that you did "inappropriate things" with your body but I would submit that as long as you're not causing yourself physical harm, you can't really do inappropriate things to your own body. Did it feel good? Did you enjoy it? Did it hurt anyone else? Then you're good.

    Sexuality is part of the human experience. We're all different and what turns one person on may turn another off. There's nothing wrong with that, and fetishes are just an expression of a positive memory or feeling. What makes me attracted to diapers? Who knows. But it feels good, I enjoy the hell out of it, and it hurts no one. I see no value in wasting energy on feeling bad that I have something that gives me joy and comfort. It's not like it's going anywhere so I may as well enjoy it.

    Look, there have been countless posts about why we're like this. I'll save you some reading. Some of us know why and can trace it back to an experience but most of us don't know and will never know. Is it innate or did something happen? I have no idea, and the answer may well be different for each of us.

    -RMS

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    If you are say 18, and see a 16-year-old who turns you on, you're not a pedophile. I would caution you, however, that pictures of said 16-year-old in diapers would be borderline child porn...

    It is helpful to figure out whether you are being turned on by the diaper, or the person wearing the diaper. In your case, since you find yourself attracted to the person first, then want to see them diapered, I would say it is both for you. If it's a person around your own age, it's cool. But if say, you're 18, see an eight-year-old, get turned on, then want to see them in a diaper... That would be pedophilia.

    Otherwise, take RMS401'S advice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by filthyboy View Post
    Hey guys, i decided to make this account because i am obsessed with diapers, i have a grand plan of buying them tomorrow at my local food mart place.

    I wanted to ask some questions. i have been a diaper lover since i can remember, of course for 90% of the time i have been living i have been learning about it. So of course i tried to remove it, i got successful for a while and i didn't think or do anything related to diapers for a long time. but the urge to have them took over and i did inappropriate things with my body and finally discovered what this fetish was and i embraced it. since i learned about what m* is i did it more and more often and i am totally addicted but throughout this year its been a bit weird with my fetish. every time i look at someone that looks cute or is sexually comforting i look up that persons look with a drop of diapers in the image. For example, I was on the bus browsing my phone and i saw a kid about my age or maybe even younger with curley hair and i found it attracting so when i got home i searched up "kids with curley hair in diapers," the same thing happened when i was watching a documentary that was related to japan, the girl was naked (obviously not on camera) but they had her shirt and clothes off to imply that she was naked, and then in my head that made me think of diapers, so when i went to bed i browsed on my phone and searched up "japanese girls in diapers"

    i know diaper fetish is not wrong

    but is me getting sexually turned on by things then me wanting to see them in diapers petophile like?

    please help guys

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    Also is this where i post stuff like this?

    I can only imagine the courage it must have taken to open up here and write about these feelings. I admire the strength you have shown. As others have said here, if you are attracted to children while fantasizing about diaper scenarios, then there are evident signs of pedophilia for which you should seek treatment immediately.

    It is important to differentiate your diaper fetish from pedophilia. The ABDL community has frequently been bashed by media and social media portraying us as child molesters, perverts, while mistakenly equating it with pedophilia. It can be difficult to accept our own feelings of a harmless fetish while being constantly exposed to negative stereotypes and misinformation about our fetish. So the first thing you need to do is differentiate from harmful public perceptions and your own actual feelings.

    It should be noted that pedophilia is an illness. You have a lot going for you in that you are willing to ask questions, you are open to getting help, and you have not physically acted on any inappropriate feelings. There are a lot of reasons to be hopeful. If you come to the realization that you are indeed suffering with this illness, you need to realize that it does not not make you a bad person, it is only an indicator that you need professional treatment to manage the symptoms.

    There is a stigma attached to pedophilia and even when people are just questioning their feelings, the shame can prevent them from seeking the help they need. Asking questions here about something that could be a problem for you is both honourable and courageous. It puts you in a better position to get closer to 'normal,' and to obtain proper care for an illness, or to stop obsessing over feelings that may not be symptoms of pedophila.

    You deserve to be happy and to have the opportunity to develop healthy relationships. If you have any reason to suspect your inclinations may be harmful to yourself or others, my hope is that you will reach out and talk to a professional in the real world as soon as possible. Most of us have things in our lives that can depress, worry, stress, or cause anger. Sharing such personal issues can be difficult, but finding answers to ourselves can be empowering.

    My thoughts are with you.
    Last edited by Starrunner; 02-Jul-2017 at 17:22.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KimbaWolfNagihiko View Post
    If you are say 18, and see a 16-year-old who turns you on, you're not a pedophile. I would caution you, however, that pictures of said 16-year-old in diapers would be borderline child porn...

    It is helpful to figure out whether you are being turned on by the diaper, or the person wearing the diaper. In your case, since you find yourself attracted to the person first, then want to see them diapered, I would say it is both for you. If it's a person around your own age, it's cool. But if say, you're 18, see an eight-year-old, get turned on, then want to see them in a diaper... That would be pedophilia.

    Otherwise, take RMS401'S advice.
    Actually, wouldn't it be the other way around, if your 18 and see someone who's 18 of over its not pedophilia, but if your 18 and see someone who's 16 (which is a minor) then that is pedophilia.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BabyMax2000 View Post
    Actually, wouldn't it be the other way around, if your 18 and see someone who's 18 of over its not pedophilia, but if your 18 and see someone who's 16 (which is a minor) then that is pedophilia.

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    Pedophilia is attraction to children who have not reached puberty, not a certain magic age. Most 16-year-olds are past that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BabyMax2000 View Post
    Actually, wouldn't it be the other way around, if your 18 and see someone who's 18 of over its not pedophilia, but if your 18 and see someone who's 16 (which is a minor) then that is pedophilia.

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    Technically it is ephebophilia (attraction to mid-to-late teens), though it doesn't really count if you're in the same age range (at least psychologically. Legally is a different story).

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    Quote Originally Posted by filthyboy View Post
    sorry, about my response i have never been a good writer. What I mean't to say is, people around my age and younger................

    i fixed it up
    your how old?and are attracted to people that are how much younger than yourself?? this would be the deciding factor.


    This topic is the MAIN (and probably only) reason why i feel completely repelled against myself for having a diaper fetish. Lots of confusion and grey area within our community and outsiders about this and it raises my blood pressure when someone points at us and says pedophile. People on here and elsewhere bring up these topics (am i a pedophile? am i wrong for being turned on by younger teens? etc) and I know he and others probably arent attracted to children, them posting things like this makes it difficult to truly know the answer though. We have sex offenders that were said to have diaper fetishes, which also doesn't help :/

    I also think that posting topics like this isnt good for visitors on this site. This could be someones wife or girlfriend/boyfriend that is trying to understand abdls in a positive manner and when you have people questioning themselves whether they are pedophiles or not on a diaper/ab site which is already frowned upon as being "creepy" or questionable as to whether we are attracted to minors or not :/. It ruins those chances of acceptance by those onlookers to say the least. :/

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