Good Evening All,
For sometime, I've been wanting to tell my wife about my DL side. Well, wait, subtract the "lover" part. The "lover" part may scare her? I don't know how to go about it. My wife is pretty understanding to a degree. Few years back she fell in love with footed pajamas. I introduced them to her and was afraid how that was going to turn out. She gave me the weird look at first but was excited once they came in the mail.
Though, diapers aren't close and not clothing. They can be extremely weird and gross if one used them especially if you're not used to them. I can see her going the gross route. To understand why I wear, mostly to handle anxiety and... I love wearing diapers. In a previous post, I mentioned how I felt this isn't a fetish anymore but more a comfortable feeling.
My thoughts on bringing this up. Simply wetting the bed. Yes, the doctors are going to run tests and do whatever and she will eventually accept for what I am. But, this can be hiding behind a lie. Secondly, wearing here and there and letting her know and say it's to handle anxiety. This is partly true. This my lead to a psychologist and I'd like to ignore this. Thirdly, just come out and say how I feel. I feel comfortable wearing diapers. Again, this may come to be a visit to a psychologist issue.
Would she leave me if it was the latter? I doubt it. Although, I feel her feelings would be hurt or find herself to be depressed that she isn't with a man that doesn't need diapers. WHICH, brings me to my last option. How do I get her to want or accept diapers on her own?
Any help would be appreciated. I'd like to go the honest route without lying if possible.
For sometime, I've been wanting to tell my wife about my DL side. Well, wait, subtract the "lover" part. The "lover" part may scare her? I don't know how to go about it. My wife is pretty understanding to a degree. Few years back she fell in love with footed pajamas. I introduced them to her and was afraid how that was going to turn out. She gave me the weird look at first but was excited once they came in the mail.
Though, diapers aren't close and not clothing. They can be extremely weird and gross if one used them especially if you're not used to them. I can see her going the gross route. To understand why I wear, mostly to handle anxiety and... I love wearing diapers. In a previous post, I mentioned how I felt this isn't a fetish anymore but more a comfortable feeling.
My thoughts on bringing this up. Simply wetting the bed. Yes, the doctors are going to run tests and do whatever and she will eventually accept for what I am. But, this can be hiding behind a lie. Secondly, wearing here and there and letting her know and say it's to handle anxiety. This is partly true. This my lead to a psychologist and I'd like to ignore this. Thirdly, just come out and say how I feel. I feel comfortable wearing diapers. Again, this may come to be a visit to a psychologist issue.
Would she leave me if it was the latter? I doubt it. Although, I feel her feelings would be hurt or find herself to be depressed that she isn't with a man that doesn't need diapers. WHICH, brings me to my last option. How do I get her to want or accept diapers on her own?
Any help would be appreciated. I'd like to go the honest route without lying if possible.