Hi Reeddsam,
welcome to the group. Firstly I suggest you check out ADISC Intro, Rules & tips (link at top of page). Secondly Adisc isn't about meeting up with others, it's more about support for the whole AB/DL (and similar groups like BF's etc), IC, LGBT communities. Whilst it is possible to arrange meetings you will need to wait until you can send private messages. So for now have a look through the forums and find some you like and start contributing to them.