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    okay I was told to put it here. so I been trying to get rid of shame stuff. I read stuff and there is nothing to read. so I end up taking care of myself watching stuff like pegging and garbage and making up shameful thoughts and I regret it and its like eating your food fast and not enjoying I am seeing a tharpist but I want your guys help thank you
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    there should be no shame in sex, it is perfectly normal for everyone

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    I think the key is in realizing that we are all innately sexual creatures, and that doing things to satisfy our sexual urges is good and natural--and healthy! As long as it doesn't harm anybody else, that is. Many of us here, for whatever silly reason, find diapers to be sexually attractive and stimulating. That includes me. I seldom wear diapers if not to masturbate in them, and I'm not ashamed to admit that. That attraction is a part of me, I don't feel I chose it, and I haven't seen anything that makes me think it's curable. Nor, at this point, do I feel any inclination to cure it, honestly. I'm pretty well used to it. In my experience, the best way to get past the feelings is to deal with then when they become obvious. Suppressing them only makes them more intense.

    When I was younger, I was ashamed at the thought of being the only person alive to find sexual pleasure in diapers. But the comforting reality is that there are quite a few of us, and it seems we mostly develop these attractions when we are babies and toddlers. They're certainly not a choice, and so there's no reason to feel guilty. You've done nothing wrong. Go easy on yourself and take care of your diaper-related needs.
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    Quote Originally Posted by makena43 View Post
    okay I was told to put it here. so I been trying to get rid of shame stuff. I read stuff and there is nothing to read. so I end up taking care of myself watching stuff like pegging and garbage and making up shameful thoughts and I regret it and its like eating your food fast and not enjoying I am seeing a tharpist but I want your guys help oh I do fantasy diapers and girls so drop me a line thank you
    Having sexual thoughts and feelings are a normal part of being an adult.
    Even physically and developmentally disabled adults like myself have them.
    Not long ago an online disabled friend of mine and I "talked dirty".
    I felt emotional relief at being able to "express" internal sexual thoughts and feelings as a person with Autism and Cerebral Palsy.
    Internally pounding down sexual thoughts and feelings is not good.
    I admit that I regularly masturbate my own penis, simply to "feel good".
    Sex is not dirty.
    It is natural.

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    Wait I don't think sex or masturbating. Is wrong. Its what I am saying. And watching. My body works if there is humatiion. And shame. I try to stop it but keeps going

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    It's okay to think about sex in a daily basis. Most people do have erotic thoughts throughout the day and that's kinda normal. You will find plenty of sex-related jokes on any adult cartoons (The Simpsons, Family Guy, South Park, etc.).

    I even get sexual thoughts even though I have ADHD and aspergers syndrome (autism). The funny thing is I do not find diapers arousing at all. I find it disgusting to have a man get sucked off in a soiled nappy. I also get no reason boners (I am not joking nor am I referencing NSP). I wake up in the morning and my crotch gets hard. If it doesn't go away, I have to rub it out. But if it does, I end up having to urinate seconds later.

    You should also not be ashamed if you look at pornography. Everyone that I know personally watches it in some form or another. For me, regular porn, it takes me awhile to get ready then finish, it just doesn't do it. However, seeing two gay curries go at it gets me hot instantly and then done in less than five minutes.

    In conclusion, sexuality is a part of who we are.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Onesieman View Post
    It's okay to think about sex in a daily basis. Most people do have erotic thoughts throughout the day and that's kinda normal.
    Well, most MEN do anyway - up until death (and beyond?).

    And my eyesight IS getting worse...

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    I'm reminded of a locally famous quote by the late Mayor Daley, Hizzoner I: "If you can't take care of your own, who can you take care of?"

    He was referring to patronage and nepotism in city jobs, but I think it applies in this case as well.

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    Maybe I use stuff. Like girls using a strapon with a guy is gay. And so I am not gay I notice I get. Is to things and I have. To make it stronger for it to work. Oh diaper ones I make it where. A girl finds you in a diaper and ask why and try make you feel shamed. So I always feel. Bad after. Plus the uti. Makes it burn

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    seems like I am frusted afterwards because I think I am being gay or you are still doing self talk with humauation and shame its unheathy

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