I don't have a thick skin myself, like, AT ALL. I'm super sensitive to the tiniest criticism or comment. Because I tend to play words over and over in my head, for days sometimes, until I finally stop thinking about it. One thing occurred to me. Are you on any medications for depression or anxiety? You might see if there is something you could take to help yourself remain calm. I'm not advocating this as the answer, but it may help. I know with my medication, I become super chill and comments just roll off my back. I call it "F*ck this sh*t O-Clock" because I don't care. When I'm calm, the fact that I'm wearing offers serenity and comfort. So you could say my medication and diapers compliment each other.