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Sitting down and listening definitely goes a long way! But reassurance can help a ton in the long run

Hey SIYSIY

I'm glad to hear about your little brother, it's nice to know hes working on improving his life, and that he has a wonderful big brother like you to count on.

have you suggested he join adisc? Support can be a draining thing even for those that are closest to us in life.

Spread the burden, perhaps even just browsing some of adisc he might come across something helpful?


A) Feel better about himself.

I know I feel better when I have achieved or made progress with something that is looming over me. Perhaps you could help him break his troubles/worries down to smaller more manageable sizes so that he still feels he is accomplishing something, even if he has only progressed with a portion rather then the whole?


B) To see that he not always going to be in this situation.

This is a good place where adisc could come in, adisc is stuffed full of people who have road the wheel of life, to its high points and to its low.

C) To accept that he is still a Baby boy even thought he is 19 and need to look after himself because his family are not going to they just want him to get a Job even if it means not finishing college.


Again, I really feel adisc itself would come in handy here, as it's one thing to have our friends pulling us one way with advice and our family another. I dont know how far he is into college, or a lot of the details of the situation, however there is a slew of threads on adisc of those with regrets for not finishing what they start, regardless of what it is.


Good on you for being a decent and caring big brother!

a teddy?? if that fails then an oversized hoody hehe

dollifyme said:

Sitting down and listening definitely goes a long way! But reassurance can help a ton in the long run

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^^This.