Greetings all. Newish post. Just a DL with a question for the seasoned ABDL community...so I have been wearing for some time now and tried many many brands but am a touch confused about sizing...no matter what brand (either purely medical or just fun ABDL diapers) the medium fits but still seems either too large or a bit snug and I tried larges and they are ALWAYS too big. Don't get me wrong, swimming in a plush, crinkly nappy is a joy but I want a better fit...am I missing something? I am tall but narrow (only a 34 waist) and basically have no butt. Any suggestions?