Tommycombs said:I always sort of fluff up a new diaper before I put it on. I lightly tug on the leak barriers to make sure they aren't stuck to the padding, stretch it out a couple times, and put that thing on! I usually wear vinyl pants over them to hide the crinkle sounds. My wife was amazed how well that works. Lately though, I've developed a rash high on my inner left leg. It's not a diaper rash, but rather just from chafing. I bought some zinc oxide diaper rash cream for it today.
I'm starting to realize what so many others have already said. The paranoia about going out secretly diapered is really in your head. I keep doing it and nobody notices anything. Eventually, you'll forget you're even wearing until you need that comfort feeling, which you then get instantly. Nobody cares and really I couldn't care less what kind of underwear others prefer under their clothes. I'm not an exhibitionist and I don't have any fears of ending up on peopleofwalmart.com or anything like that.
DracoAmericanus said:Why would you stop wearing after meeting a mate? if that said person can't accept you for all of you then they are not worth the time or trouble.
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I find that the vinyl pants are not worth using unless to contain leaks, I have worn some of the loudest diapers and no one notices, even in an office environment I was wearing the attends plastic version that is kinda loud and no one noticed
makena43 said:Okay work on finding who I am. Also. People. Have. Trying. To make me quit. It hurts alot. But I can't. They think you just stop it. And be normal guy. I think no. Its like being gay. You can't. What do you guys think?
Tommycombs said:I was out and about today (Walmart trip) and there was a table set up getting signatures against a trans bathroom thing. I overheard a nasty comment as I was going in and it sort of scared me because this was somebody's response to one alternative lifestyle (for lack of a better word, apologies) and here I was walking by, just thinking, "Oh man, if you only knew what weird thing I was hiding right under your nose!". It bothered me partly because it reminded me how far we still need to come with this vanilla society of ours.
Slomo said:Seconded. While others are extremely unlikely to notice the crinkle sound, wearing a diaper cover for this reason can still abate any fears of it happening, which will reduce stress and is still beneficial afterall.
Of course, I've also come to realise that NO diaper is ever going to be 100% leakproof, for every single day you use one. Wearing a diaper cover helps to contain that leak and helps you to notice it faster too. This alone makes them pretty important to wear, and if you can also get the benefit of reduced noise then that's all the better.
HELL YEAH!Slomo said:First, it neither illegal nor immoral to like diapers. Anyone who says it's wrong, is wrong themselves. Why would you listen to that?
Second, stop caring what others think of you so much. If you want to do something, and someone else says no, do it anyways. Once you feel better for having done it, you own self confidence will go up since you'll be able to trust your own decisions above others.
It's what has been conditioned to believe only babies and senior citizens or incontinent people are allowed and is okay to wear them.SiriusPup said:Wise words
Yes at first it is still unnatural to want to be wet - it goes against years of adulthood where we are programmed that it's wrong
So you will always get people who still can't see its right - they will always be there - but in that me you learn to rise above it and feel happier in passing than out of it - then those doubters seem to fade into background and not matter so much
So be proud be yourself and follow your heart