That's what we all need to remember. We aren't hurting anybody. As an ABDL, I do not need diapers for incontinence (thankfully) but I still need them for my emotional and psychological well being. I am a nicer all around person to be around when I'm comfortable and happy. Diapers and baby stuff have always made me have those feelings. It falls outside of what our society would call normal but who is to say what is normal or how far you're allowed to stray from it? As long as it doesn't hurt anyone or cause problems, own who you are. Every weird, freaky, wonderful part of your identity and stop feeling shame for a harmlessly strange comfort you have because believe me, you are not alone as you can see.