I was wondering just how much control over the actual flow of urine those of us with (varying levels of) incontinence have. For example with my BPH I almost always have some significant leakage after urinating and I have virtually no control over the leakage no matter how hard I try to clamp down. On the other hand I also have some urge incontinence and when an urge hits I'll only have a minute or two before I will urinate. However when that happens I do have some control over the actual flow. That is I usually don't just totally flood my diaper as I can throttle the flow a little so my diaper has a better chance of absorbing the flood without leaking. I'm sure the level of "flow control" varies for many of us but I thought it would be interesting to see what others are experiencing.