First public outing

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As I was going to work for a 12 hour shift and that I needed to work in the factory all day in a 40 degree c (102 degree f) i chose not to wear a diaper that day. All day I felt it missing and I was turned on thinking of my self in a diaper. i hadn't had chance to pee and it was building up. When my shift finished and i got to my train station I changed into my diaper but did not pee as the feeling was turning me on more. I then started to walk home with the diaper rubbing me I released and wet my diaper in public. The warm feeling of the pee covering the diaper and my body was exhilarating. I continued to walk and the diaper was begining to swell and make my buldge in my diaper noticeable, people were stating bit I did not care at that point as I was hard and ready to explode. Finally i got home and stared in the mirror at my flooded diaper and the smell was wonderful of the hot pee that was in the diaper. Just the feeling and the look of the hanging wet diaper made me explode.

I really had fun and defiantly enjoyed the experience of my first public diaper wetting and will do it again. I may try public messing next time.



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I think you may have accidentally posted this in the wrong subforum.
 
ClickyKeys said:
I think you may have accidentally posted this in the wrong subforum.

I moved it from "Stories" to "Diaper Talk."
 
I have to wonder, were they actually staring at your crotch enough, and snickering enough, for you to make sure and know that's what it was about. I know a LOT of dls are so self conscious about wearing a diaper they think everyone notices, but in reality most simply do not.
 
Slomo said:
I have to wonder, were they actually staring at your crotch enough, and snickering enough, for you to make sure and know that's what it was about. I know a LOT of dls are so self conscious about wearing a diaper they think everyone notices, but in reality most simply do not.

Maybe the initial forum was the right forum, that line is pretty popular in the fantasy stories I see posted.
 
You did nothing defiantly unless you were being an exhibitionist , there is no law prohibiting diaper use by anyone that wants to use one .

As far as going out and messing in public , that's pretty sick to involve strangers in your kink , the IC take precautions to not stink if they have fecal problems ,in case they have a BM in public,you will attract lots of negative attention that urinating will never bring ,if you happen to do it around the wrong person you may even get called out on it ,because the whole world has gone nuts, and trust me if somebody is seriously offended from your actions, you had better have doctor saying your incontinent when your questioned on why this occurred, at best it's weird and rude at worst you can have a creative cop charge you with something.

I see you just joined recently so welcome to the board.
 
Note said:

Yeah locking it would have been the better choice. Also given this posters other posts, it's questionable given the poster stated in their intro getting caught is exciting to them.
 
Note said:
I think some of the more influential people in this culture need to establish some boundaries on what is and what is not socially acceptable. Because as it stands, we're just a bunch of crazy kinksters (or fetishists) where anything goes, even at the expense of others. And there is no point in saying that's where common sense and social etiquette comes in, some just don't have it (or lack thereof).
For what it's worth, I've tried multiple times but every time someone took huge issue with it and the consensus basically seemed to that I was being a judgemental assole for daring to suggest that it's rude to subject others to your fetishes. It's gotten to the point where I just don't bother anymore, though I see others with the same opinion subject the the same treatment from very vocal members of the community (hell, look at the thread about reducing cringe for a prime example). TBH I think we've already lost that cultural battle. People are going to do what they're going to do regardless of whether it makes the rest of us look bad.
 
Note said:
I know, right? Since when did it become socially acceptable to rub your kink in the faces of other people? And I say that because wilfully spreading your ammonia around the masses for the sake of some kink/fetish can make people sick, especially those with a weak immune system.

I think some of the more influential people in this culture need to establish some boundaries on what is and what is not socially acceptable. Because as it stands, we're just a bunch of crazy kinksters (or fetishists) where anything goes, even at the expense of others. And there is no point in saying that's where common sense and social etiquette comes in, some just don't have it (or lack thereof).

irnub said:
For what it's worth, I've tried multiple times but every time someone took huge issue with it and the consensus basically seemed to that I was being a judgemental assole for daring to suggest that it's rude to subject others to your fetishes. It's gotten to the point where I just don't bother anymore, though I see others with the same opinion subject the the same treatment from very vocal members of the community (hell, look at the thread about reducing cringe for a prime example). TBH I think we've already lost that cultural battle. People are going to do what they're going to do regardless of whether it makes the rest of us look bad.

Although I prefer to be discreet, I don't think I have any significant requirement to do so. Most public displays cause no harm, even if they might make some uncomfortable. Is it nicer to avoid possibly making others uncomfortable? Yes, but we are not actually required to be nice; free societies allow for a fair degree better and worse than "nice". To me, it's the defense of unpopular freedom of expression. No one needs to defend the popular stuff, it's the things that might make people uncomfortable that require real consideration and defense. I prefer a society where people can be offended when they go out into the world and I want those offenders protected.

Social stigma is fine and you folks are free to try and push your vision of what the ABDL community should be. However, since we have no membership cards and no dues, I think you're bound to be unhappy if you define success by controlling the impulses of the least inhibited (or one might say sane) among us. We can control our own behavior. We can advise. You can avoid the ones you don't like. That's about it.
 
irnub said:
TBH I think we've already lost that cultural battle. People are going to do what they're going to do regardless of whether it makes the rest of us look bad.

Is that true? I see a lot of consensus when the topic comes up.

Perhaps there is a steady stream of noobs who are heady over their newfound self acceptance (partial at least) or confidence who are acting thoughtlessly, but the message does get out.

Perhaps someone should write an article on how to be a considerate and ABDL, and how to be a good 'ambassador'?
 
I have to agree. Anything diaper sex related (kink or fetish) needs to left out of the public.

Now ab or dl where diapers are an ingrained compulsory part of who we are. I say wear them openly and proud because nobody should have to hide who they are.
 
Maybe we need a European style porn for ABDL , you want to drop a deuce in public you do it on a set and anyone can watch if that's there thing no one gets hurt and everyone who is interested can watch , I don't remember what country does that but if your idea of fun is doing a girl scout in the woods , they have a set with props and a sex worker dressed as a girl scout and cameras everywhere and then anyone who is into that can watch it , that's there version of porn and maybe that would work for people who want to excersize there individuality and drop deuces in there diaper in public , after all what's more public then the whole nation getting to watch , just don't expect to not get weird looks in the grocery store when you get recognized as "that guy" .

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Note said:
I know, right? Since when did it become socially acceptable to rub your kink in the faces of other people? And I say that because wilfully spreading your ammonia around the masses for the sake of some kink/fetish can make people sick, especially those with a weak immune system.

I think some of the more influential people in this culture need to establish some boundaries on what is and what is not socially acceptable. Because as it stands, we're just a bunch of crazy kinksters (or fetishists) where anything goes, even at the expense of others. And there is no point in saying that's where common sense and social etiquette comes in, some just don't have it (or lack thereof).
This was not literal it was a feeling i had. I did it once and am i pleased about it no, why do you judge people before understanding people. Shame on you sir.

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I don't care if you fantasize your the milkman filling bottles with semen , fantasy is fine, you did not make it clear that this was fantasy so obviously we expressed our dismay , in any group even ABDL there is a level of decorum that the community has about its actions and interactions with average individuals , I think you will find universally dropping a deuce is something we all feel strongly about ,as I say if you fantasize about something no harm, no foul, nobody gets Hurt but please learn a lesson from this that you should label it fantasy clearly .

So you know I use an electric wheelchair , I was on amtrack when someone thought it was a good idea to try and flush a diaper with diarrhea, that failed pretty badly it got stuck and over flowed I into the car , most people just got a few whiffs and evacuated to other cars , I could not go anywhere and had to just sit and smell it because we were three hours until the nearest station that could unload me and put me into another car that wasn't a hazmat scene. So I have an experienced the awfull result of someone's not thinking and completely ignoring the clearly posted signs not to try and flush diapers. I realize the impact would be less keeping it in your pants , either way it's still disgusting be it five feet in every direction from you or evacuating a train car, I am diaper user and I was disgusted, so imagine what the public felt . Now if you are at home and wanna do it and roll around in it the rest of the night , have at it, enjoy yourself, watch out for rash, or make it clear that it's fantasy , and none of us will make a peep about it , thank god we don't have scratch and sniff memories!

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Tetra said:
I don't care if you fantasize your the milkman filling bottles with semen , fantasy is fine, you did not make it clear that this was fantasy so obviously we expressed our dismay , in any group even ABDL there is a level of decorum that the community has about its actions and interactions with average individuals , I think you will find universally dropping a deuce is something we all feel strongly about ,as I say if you fantasize about something no harm, no foul, nobody gets Hurt but please learn a lesson from this that you should label it fantasy clearly .

So you know I use an electric wheelchair , I was on amtrack when someone thought it was a good idea to try and flush a diaper with diarrhea, that failed pretty badly it got stuck and over flowed I into the car , most people just got a few whiffs and evacuated to other cars , I could not go anywhere and had to just sit and smell it because we were three hours until the nearest station that could unload me and put me into another car that wasn't a hazmat scene. So I have an experienced the awfull result of someone's not thinking and completely ignoring the clearly posted signs not to try and flush diapers. I realize the impact would be less keeping it in your pants , either way it's still disgusting be it five feet in every direction from you or evacuating a train car, I am diaper user and I was disgusted, so imagine what the public felt . Now if you are at home and wanna do it and roll around in it the rest of the night , have at it, enjoy yourself, watch out for rash, or make it clear that it's fantasy , and none of us will make a peep about it , thank god we don't have scratch and sniff memories!

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To be fair, this was initially in the story board of the fiction section (albeit not better marked) until a moderator moved it.
 
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