Argent
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Hi peeps,
So I am in a bit of a quandary, normally when I think I have done a good turn for a someone (not necessarily an actual friend) and I have an understanding of reciprocation and they ignore my request I have been the "shoot from the hip" type of person and completely cut them dead but wondering how others approach this type of situation?
I must admit I do have a bit of a persecution complex (though I work on it constantly) but under no circumstances can I stand things like rude service.
On one hand I want to give people the benefit of the doubt, for all I know they might be going through the worst time of their life and my request could seem inconsequential but on the other hand I don't want to be the latest mark or just a chump they have scammed.
What do others do or are you the easy going type where stuff is just water off a ducks back?
So I am in a bit of a quandary, normally when I think I have done a good turn for a someone (not necessarily an actual friend) and I have an understanding of reciprocation and they ignore my request I have been the "shoot from the hip" type of person and completely cut them dead but wondering how others approach this type of situation?
I must admit I do have a bit of a persecution complex (though I work on it constantly) but under no circumstances can I stand things like rude service.
On one hand I want to give people the benefit of the doubt, for all I know they might be going through the worst time of their life and my request could seem inconsequential but on the other hand I don't want to be the latest mark or just a chump they have scammed.
What do others do or are you the easy going type where stuff is just water off a ducks back?