George7789
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I myself am not incontinent, but I was wondering what it would be like. How do you manage #1 and #2 accidents, do you change right away? Do you change in public?
Slomo said:What's it like? Why not just try it and find out for yourself.
kerry said:1. One does not "try" being incontinent. One either is or isn't.
2. I believe that the point of most of these comments—I know it was the point of mine—has been that this is not a thing to covet. Sure, I "get" the AB/DL fantasy thing: the whole "being a baby" thing. But that is not our reality. We are adults, needing to be adults in an adult world, dealing with this issue while living in and moving through that world. And my concerns, embarrassment, and inconvenience are nothing compared to that of someone like miapeters who is bowel incontinent. She explained the difference perfectly; does it sound at all like a fantasy? Remember: she is in the real world, where clean-up is hard and awkward and often limited to a handicapped stall, and there is no one aiding you.
Thus I repeat:
"What is it like?" Nothing you'd actually want to have to deal with.
kerry said:1. One does not "try" being incontinent. One either is or isn't.
2. I believe that the point of most of these comments—I know it was the point of mine—has been that this is not a thing to covet. Sure, I "get" the AB/DL fantasy thing: the whole "being a baby" thing. But that is not our reality. We are adults, needing to be adults in an adult world, dealing with this issue while living in and moving through that world. And my concerns, embarrassment, and inconvenience are nothing compared to that of someone like miapeters who is bowel incontinent. She explained the difference perfectly; does it sound at all like a fantasy? Remember: she is in the real world, where clean-up is hard and awkward and often limited to a handicapped stall, and there is no one aiding you.
Thus I repeat:
"What is it like?" Nothing you'd actually want to have to deal with.
Slomo said:1. Actually you can. Have you ever heard of a catheter. Insert a folley then diaper up. Or better yet, you can modify a malecot type catheter by cutting it short. Tie some dental floss to the end of it and work it in fully. You'll never feel the catheter and have uncontrolled wetting the whole time. I've done this many times with a folley, and a few times with a modified one. So yes you absolutely can try it.
miapeters said:I am urinary incontinent as well but I'm not really sure exactly how it is for a person with only urinary issues but isn't it still inconvenient? What if in the middle of a meeting or a class you realize that you need to change? I don't know but I think it is just inconvenient as hell and also the amount to spend on diapers isn't really easy as there are so many other bills and stuff to cover.
miapeters said:I am urinary incontinent as well but I'm not really sure exactly how it is for a person with only urinary issues but isn't it still inconvenient? What if in the middle of a meeting or a class you realize that you need to change? I don't know but I think it is just inconvenient as hell and also the amount to spend on diapers isn't really easy as there are so many other bills and stuff to cover.
I'm sorry your having that problem often, there was one time a batch of diapers has pin holes in them and I had wet through the couch at home >.< Didn't even realize it until I got up to go and it felt horrible ruining that couch,kerry said:Oh goodness yes, Mia. I buy the best premium diapers available, but that didn't stop them from leaking on occasion at the worst possible times in school. I developed a habit of wearing black pants much of the time with a variety of long tops over them: covered up a lot of sins. In those circumstances, though, I pretty much just had to muddle through as best as possible until the next passing period; can't leave the kiddies alone.
I'm retired now. What happens more often to me these days is that I am lying on the couch with my kitties or my computer and I suddenly discover that I've leaked through my diaper, my pants, my top, and maybe even all over the (fortunately leather) couch too. Happens three or four times a week. Premium diapers fool me into relaxing too much.
miapeters said:I'm sorry your having that problem often, there was one time a batch of diapers has pin holes in them and I had wet through the couch at home >.< Didn't even realize it until I got up to go and it felt horrible ruining that couch,
Usually because I have frequent bowel accidents most of the time I don't leak because of wetting, when I have a bowel accident the diaper is quite used with wettings but not enough to leak or anything. Only during the night it can be a problem because in addition to a bowel accident I have nearly every night sometimes it leaks cause I wet it a lot, plus because I don't get woken up by any of it so morning clean up is pretty tough, anyway now I hardly have leaks..... Hopefully won't in the future.
It's interesting how your dealing with it as a teacher and I'm dealing with it as a student.
I wonder how different the experiences are [emoji14]