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  1. #1

    Default So what is intimate for you?

    So when of the activities I do at my job as a sex ed teacher is something called an intimacy chart. Taking about 15 actions and putting them on a scale of least intimate to most intimate. It's one of my favorite activities to do, as it creates some interesting discussions in the classroom, and I like to see people interact and talk about sexuality.

    So let's bring it here. I have XX actions one can do around their partner. Some actions aren't sexual, just things to get a baseline on your values and thoughts about intimacy. I have also include some foreplay, and sex. The part I am most interested in is how *b/DL plays out with most intimate in terms of other activities.

    So what I would like from you is to number these actions from 1 to 25. With 1 being least intimate, and 25 being most intimate. Because this is a personal questions surrounding your own values, please use your own definition of intimacy.

    I also realize that each action can be considered intimate, and not intimate at the same time, but a point in the activity is that there is no wiggle room. You have to assign each action it's spot. If there is an action that you would simple not do with a partner, then put it at the bottom of your list at 'least intimate' with a little asterisk*

    Go ahead and give the post a read through before you line up your responses. Please give it some thought too.

    Please post your sex (What's between your legs) and your gender (Do you consider yourself a boy or girl) at the top of your responses.

    Baseline
    ~Dancing with a partner (Fast Dance)
    ~Borrowing your partner's clothes
    ~Sharing a meal with a partner
    ~Giving your crush your phone number
    ~Going shopping with your partner
    ~A quick kiss on the cheek

    Foreplay/Sexual stuff
    ~Passionate kissing, making out
    ~Spooning (Naked or near naked)
    ~Touching a partner's genitals
    ~Touching a partner's body, not genitals
    ~Taking a shower with a partner

    Sex
    ~Receiving vaginal sex from your partner (Male bodies can skip this one)
    ~Giving vaginal sex to your partner
    ~Receiving oral sex from your partner
    ~Giving oral sex to your partner
    ~Receiving anal sex from your partner
    ~Giving anal sex to your partner

    *B/DL
    ~Having your diaper changed by your partner (Wet)
    ~Having your diaper changed by your partner (Wet/Messy)
    ~Changing your partner's diaper (Wet)
    ~Changing your partner's diaper (Wet/Messy)
    ~Mutually masturbating with your partner where one of you, or both, are wearing a diaper.
    ~Having sexual intercourse (Vaginal, Oral, or Anal) with your partner where one of you, or both are wearing a diaper.
    ~Being tucked in by your partner while fully regressed to their chosen age.
    ~Tucking your partner in while they are fully regressed to their chosen age.

    That should be enough for now, I would do more but I just previewed my post and thought it was a bit large. I'm really curious to see the responses here.

  2. #2

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    Baseline
    ~Dancing with a partner (Fast Dance) 22
    ~Borrowing your partner's clothes 17
    ~Sharing a meal with a partner 18
    ~Giving your crush your phone number 23
    ~Going shopping with your partner 24
    ~A quick kiss on the cheek 19

    Foreplay/Sexual stuff
    ~Passionate kissing, making out 20
    ~Spooning (Naked or near naked)16
    ~Touching a partner's genitals 21
    ~Touching a partner's body, not genitals14
    ~Taking a shower with a partner 15

    Sex
    ~Receiving vaginal sex from your partner (Male bodies can skip this one)
    ~Giving vaginal sex to your partner 13
    ~Receiving oral sex from your partner 12
    ~Giving oral sex to your partner 9
    ~Receiving anal sex from your partner 10
    ~Giving anal sex to your partner11

    *B/DL
    ~Having your diaper changed by your partner (Wet)1
    ~Having your diaper changed by your partner (Wet/Messy)2
    ~Changing your partner's diaper (Wet)4
    ~Changing your partner's diaper (Wet/Messy)5
    ~Mutually masturbating with your partner where one of you, or both, are wearing a diaper. 6
    ~Having sexual intercourse (Vaginal, Oral, or Anal) with your partner where one of you, or both are wearing a diaper. 7
    ~Being tucked in by your partner while fully regressed to their chosen age. 3
    ~Tucking your partner in while they are fully regressed to their chosen age. 8

    My sex is male, and I consider myself Androgynous gender

  3. #3

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    I'm a guy, considering myself a guy and I like guys. Also, I'm a DL and not an AB, so I chose not to rank some of the following:

    21. Dancing with a partner (Fast Dance)
    20. Going shopping with your partner
    19. Sharing a meal with a partner
    18. Giving your crush your phone number
    17. A quick kiss on the cheek
    16. Borrowing your partner's clothes
    15. Passionate kissing, making out
    14. Touching a partner's body, not genitals
    13. Spooning (Naked or near naked)
    12. Touching a partner's genitals
    11. Taking a shower with a partner
    10. Receiving oral sex from your partner
    9. Giving oral sex to your partner
    8. Receiving anal sex from your partner
    7. Giving anal sex to your partner
    6. Changing your partner's diaper (Wet)
    5. Having your diaper changed by your partner (Wet)
    4. Changing your partner's diaper (Wet/Messy)
    3. Having your diaper changed by your partner (Wet/Messy)
    2. Mutually masturbating with your partner where one of you, or both, are wearing a diaper.
    1. Having sexual intercourse (Vaginal, Oral, or Anal) with your partner where one of you, or both are wearing a diaper.

    Unranked 1. Giving vaginal sex to your partner (no interest in vaginas).
    Unranked 2. Receiving vaginal sex from your partner (don't have one).
    Unranked 3. Being tucked in by your partner while fully regressed to their chosen age (not AB).
    Unranked 4. Tucking your partner in while they are fully regressed to their chosen age (not AB).

    EDIT: Damn it... I screwed up the numbering and I'm too lazy to fix it right now. Just think of number 1 as 21 as so on.

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    EmeraldsAndLime

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    I'm a male, and I consider myself as such.

    Baseline
    • Dancing with a partner (Fast Dance) = 4
    • Borrowing your partner's clothes = 11
    • Sharing a meal with a partner = 1
    • Giving your crush your phone number = 3
    • Going shopping with your partner = 9
    • A quick kiss on the cheek = 12


    Foreplay/Sexual stuff
    • Passionate kissing, making out = 18
    • Spooning (Naked or near naked) = 23
    • Touching a partner's genitals = 24
    • Touching a partner's body, not genitals = 16
    • Taking a shower with a partner = 23


    Sex
    • Giving vaginal sex to your partner = 4
    • Receiving oral sex from your partner = 18
    • Giving oral sex to your partner = 16
    • Receiving anal sex from your partner = 16
    • Giving anal sex to your partner = 21


    *B/DL
    • Having your diaper changed by your partner (Wet) = 24
    • Having your diaper changed by your partner (Wet/Messy) = 25
    • Changing your partner's diaper (Wet) = 22
    • Changing your partner's diaper (Wet/Messy) = 24
    • Mutually masturbating with your partner where one of you, or both, are wearing a diaper. = 25
    • Having sexual intercourse (Vaginal, Oral, or Anal) with your partner where one of you, or both are wearing a diaper. = 25
    • Being tucked in by your partner while fully regressed to your chosen age. = 17
    • Tucking your partner in while they are fully regressed to their chosen age. = 19

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    secretdl26

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    Sex: Male Gender: Male (Straight)

    Baseline
    ~Dancing with a partner (Fast Dance) 4
    ~Borrowing your partner's clothes 10
    ~Sharing a meal with a partner 3
    ~Giving your crush your phone number 3
    ~Going shopping with your partner 4
    ~A quick kiss on the cheek 10

    Foreplay/Sexual stuff
    ~Passionate kissing, making out 15
    ~Spooning (Naked or near naked) 18
    ~Touching a partner's genitals 20
    ~Touching a partner's body, not genitals 18
    ~Taking a shower with a partner 20

    Sex
    ~Giving vaginal sex to your partner 25
    ~Receiving oral sex from your partner 21
    ~Giving oral sex to your partner 21
    ~Giving anal sex to your partner 23

    *B/DL
    ~Having your diaper changed by your partner (Wet) 15
    ~Having your diaper changed by your partner (Wet/Messy) 18
    ~Changing your partner's diaper (Wet) 15
    ~Changing your partner's diaper (Wet/Messy) 18
    ~Mutually masturbating with your partner where one of you, or both, are wearing a diaper. 20
    ~Having sexual intercourse (Vaginal, Oral, or Anal) with your partner where one of you, or both are wearing a diaper. 25
    ~Being tucked in by your partner while fully regressed to their chosen age. 10
    ~Tucking your partner in while they are fully regressed to their chosen age. 10
    Last edited by secretdl26; 06-Apr-2009 at 00:37. Reason: forgot sex/preference

  6. #6

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    Male sex, male gender.


    1 ~Having your diaper changed by your partner (Wet/Messy)*
    2 ~Changing your partner's diaper (Wet/Messy)*
    3 ~Going shopping with your partner
    4 ~Giving your crush your phone number
    5 ~Taking a shower with a partner
    6 ~Dancing with a partner (Fast Dance)
    7 ~Sharing a meal with a partner
    8 ~A quick kiss on the cheek
    9 ~Passionate kissing, making out
    10 ~Borrowing your partner's clothes
    11 ~Touching a partner's body, not genitals
    12 ~Receiving oral sex from your partner
    13 ~Touching a partner's genitals
    14 ~Mutually masturbating with your partner where one of you, or both, are wearing a diaper.
    15 ~Giving oral sex to your partner
    16 ~Giving anal sex to your partner
    17 ~Giving vaginal sex to your partner
    18 ~Receiving anal sex from your partner
    19 ~Having sexual intercourse (Vaginal, Oral, or Anal) with your partner where one of you, or both are wearing a diaper.
    20 ~Spooning (Naked or near naked)
    21 ~Changing your partner's diaper (Wet)
    22 ~Having your diaper changed by your partner (Wet)
    23 ~Tucking your partner in while they are fully regressed to their chosen age.
    24 ~Being tucked in by your partner while fully regressed to their chosen age.

    That was pretty interesting!

  7. #7

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    I'm a guy, View myself as a guy, and I'm gay.

    Baseline
    ~Dancing with a partner (Fast Dance) (Assuming it's something like a mambo or one of those sort of bump and grind dances.... >.> ) 7
    ~Borrowing your partner's clothes 5
    ~Sharing a meal with a partner 3
    ~Giving your crush your phone number 2
    ~Going shopping with your partner 1
    ~A quick kiss on the cheek 4

    Foreplay/Sexual stuff
    ~Passionate kissing, making out 11
    ~Spooning (Naked or near naked) 8
    ~Touching a partner's genitals 9
    ~Touching a partner's body, not genitals 6
    ~Taking a shower with a partner 10

    Sex
    ~Receiving oral sex from your partner 14
    ~Giving oral sex to your partner 15
    ~Receiving anal sex from your partner 19
    ~Giving anal sex to your partner 18

    *B/DL
    ~Having your diaper changed by your partner (Wet) 17
    ~Having your diaper changed by your partner (Wet/Messy) 21
    ~Changing your partner's diaper (Wet) 16
    ~Changing your partner's diaper (Wet/Messy) 20
    ~Mutually masturbating with your partner where one of you, or both, are wearing a diaper. 22
    ~Having sexual intercourse (Oral, or Anal) with your partner where one of you, or both are wearing a diaper. 23
    ~Being tucked in by your partner while fully regressed to their chosen age. 13
    ~Tucking your partner in while they are fully regressed to their chosen age. 12




    I had to think about some of my answers... a lot.

  8. #8

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    I'm male and view myself as such.

    25. Mutually masturbating with your partner where one of you, or both, are wearing a diaper.
    24. Having sexual intercourse (Vaginal, Oral, or Anal) with your partner where one of you, or both are wearing a diaper.
    23. Going shopping with your partner
    22. Sharing a meal with a partner
    21. Borrowing your partner's clothes
    20. Giving anal sex to your partner
    19. Receiving anal sex from your partner
    18. Receiving oral sex from your partner
    17. Giving oral sex to your partner
    16. Dancing with a partner (Fast Dance)
    15. Giving your crush your phone number
    14. Changing your partner's diaper (Wet/Messy)
    13. Having your diaper changed by your partner (Wet/Messy)
    12. Changing your partner's diaper (Wet)
    11. Spooning (Naked or near naked)
    10. Touching a partner's genitals
    9. Touching a partner's body, not genitals
    8. Giving your crush your phone number
    7. Tucking your partner in while they are fully regressed to their chosen age.
    6. Giving vaginal sex to your partner
    5. Taking a shower with a partner
    4. Passionate kissing, making out
    3. Having your diaper changed by your partner (Wet)
    2. Being tucked in by your partner while fully regressed to your chosen age.
    1. A quick kiss on the cheek

    This was a great topic, and numbering these things was actually a bit of a challenge. I've come through with a better understanding of myself ^_^.

  9. #9

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    I am male, consider myself as male, and am straight.

    25 is such a high number... O_o
    I would have been a bit simpler for me to go from 1-10, or 1-5...

    Baseline:
    • Dancing with a partner (Fast Dance) = 3
    • Borrowing your partner's clothes = 1
    • Sharing a meal with a partner = 1
    • Giving your crush your phone number = 2
    • Going shopping with your partner = 6
    • A quick kiss on the cheek = 10


    Foreplay/Sexual stuff
    • Passionate kissing, making out = 20
    • Spooning (Naked or near naked) = 22
    • Touching a partner's genitals = 14
    • Touching a partner's body, not genitals = 20
    • Taking a shower with a partner = 23


    Sex
    • Giving vaginal sex to your partner = 5
    • Receiving oral sex from your partner = 5
    • Giving oral sex to your partner = 5
    • Giving anal sex to your partner = 3


    *B/DL (I'm going by imagination, as I haven't done this with anyone)
    • Having your diaper changed by your partner (Wet) = 20
    • Having your diaper changed by your partner (Wet/Messy) = 20
    • Changing your partner's diaper (Wet) = 15
    • Changing your partner's diaper (Wet/Messy) = 16
    • Mutually masturbating with your partner where one of you, or both, are wearing a diaper. = 15
    • Having sexual intercourse (Vaginal, Oral, or Anal) with your partner where one of you, or both are wearing a diaper. = 15
    • Being tucked in by your partner while fully regressed to your chosen age. = 23
    • Tucking your partner in while they are fully regressed to their chosen age. = 15

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