I think it depends on when and how you wanna enjoy your little side.
If it's day by day soothing or exciting reminders, then you don't need to do anything scary at all! Maybe you could just buy a pair of cute maryjanes to stretch your daily style (bonus points for velcro), or some other slightly little-ish bit of clothing! Only, you gotta tell us all about it so we can live vicariously in jealousy through you!!!!
If you're looking for some alone time, think about what you want to get out of it? Is it to soothe and destress and get in the zone? Is there a show you could watch that's mindless fun and maybe a little immature? I personally end up watching a lot of Sailor Moon that way (I mean it's good but bad at the same time so being in a little mode pampering myself with other stuff allows me to tune out the bad and enjoy the good). Maybe watch some Disney movies or Miyazaki movies. A sippy cup could be nice with that so you don't worry about spilling your drink.
If you're spending that time with your spouse though I'm not sure any of these things are ... um... stuff they won't notice?! LOL What I mean is maybe rather than worrying about what won't be TOO MUCH, you should just have a conversation with them about wanting some times and spaces to explore being more little? Maybe they have some ideas of things they'd think are cute? If not they'll at least be upfront if they have some limits and you can not be springing something on them. You'll know if you're pushing, or know if you wanna keep stuff a little separate...
I know that can be super awkward, but really it saves a lot of tears in the end...
SleepyTyrant said:
dunno if you'd be interested, but there's munches and the occasional conventions.
Ok, I've heard that term a few times but I'm kinda afraid to Google it... erm... whatsa munch?
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P.S. Don't feel too weirded out about the diaper's ... um ... intended purpose if that's what's makes them hard to consider. I for one have worn many a diaper without ... um... getting it dirty.
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P.P.S. The thing about diaper is that they feel AMAZING! *(^_^)* There is absolutely nothing as blush inducing and little feeling as the comfort and security of being wrapped up. Even if you don't use them... you KNOW who they are for and what it means about YOU if you are wearing them!
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P.P.P.S. Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhh, I sound like a pusher from one of those terrible 90's anti-drug commercials! SORRY, SORRY, SORRY, I certainly don't want to push anyone outside of their comfort zone. I think also you can have a totally satisfying little life with no diapers or even no toys at all ... it's all in the mind after all.