I just bought two packs of these and two packs of ATN's the other day. I live them. The abri's are the thickest and most comfortable diaper ever! I do worry that they're noticeable though.
I wear the abri forms in large and as far as I know no one knows that I am wearing them. At least no one says anything about it if they do notice. If you wear loose clothing and keep your shirt from riding up you should be safe. That has worked for me. For example if you wear a size 34 in pants I'd recommend going with a size 36.
I just bought two packs of these and two packs of ATN's the other day. I live them. The abri's are the thickest and most comfortable diaper ever! I do worry that they're noticeable though.