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    So, last week something really nice happened to me. I went out with my best friend to have some drinks. It was a really enjoyable night and we talked about anything really. Perhaps I should say that this friend is a person which I really trust and she also has some medical problems (though not bowel or bladder related) so I guessed she would be accepting if I came out to her about my ABDL side. Then later that night I decided to tell her. I told her that I want to share a secret with her, however in the next second I completely panicked because I did not know how to put it in such way as to explain what abdl really means to me. Saying I like to wear diapers just does not really encompass what abdl is for me. So I told her that I like to do a certain thing in my free time which is a part of me but which I have been hiding from the rest of the world until now. I then told her to send her some links as that would make it easier for her to understand. We then stayed at the pub for another hour or so and did not talk about it anymore. Then we said goodbye to each other and went home. Right after I came back home, I turned on my computer and saw her online so I did as I promised and I sent her about 10 links with definitions, pictures etc. so she could get an idea. She read the message and her answer was "oh" which she accompanied with a smiley. I was shaking and my heart was beating, that is how nervous I was and I was mad at myself for probably making a huge mistake by coming out to her. Then about 30 minutes later she texted me again saying she finds it interesting and "kind of cute" and asked me if I wanted to come over to her place tomorrow and have a pizza together...

    The very next day I found myself at her place and of course sooner or later the topic switched to previous night. She gave me the warmest smile she ever did and was very open minded about abdl, asking me all sorts of questions such as how long I have been doing it, what it feels like to wear a diaper etc. I told her I was really happy that she knew this about me because sharing it with someone made me feel so much better. We ended upmbeing really open about things and I asked her if she would mind me wearing a diaper the next time we go out. Her answer was that she would have absolutely no problem with it. We comtinued hanging out at her place and listening to music. We then agreed on making a movie week end together at my place which we sometimes do. Knowing she wouldn't mind me wearing around her I asked her if it was ok if I was wearing diapers during the week end. She giggled and said "I see, so you don't have to run away from the movie all the time." We shared a laugh and and I knew I just took an important step in my life as an abdl, I was not alone with this anymore, but I had my best friend knowing in and accepting me very positively.

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    Congrats dude!!!

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    That is really beautiful. I am so happy for you and your friend. This is a big step for you and you must be full of excitement. Not that you are seeking advice but be wary of the pitfalls of scaring away the natives. If I were in your shoes I would not make mention of it again. Wear in front of her with yor trousers on and only if she initiates talking or wanting to see you should engage it. If you make it no big deal, just one of those things, it would serve you both better. If you start making it some big thing you may risk weirding her out and ruining everthing. Sounds like you are in for happy times expressing yourself in new ways. Much love.

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    Wow, congrats! You're super lucky!

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    Quote Originally Posted by islander View Post
    So, last week something really nice happened to me. I went out with my best friend to have some drinks. It was a really enjoyable night and we talked about anything really. Perhaps I should say that this friend is a person which I really trust and she also has some medical problems (though not bowel or bladder related) so I guessed she would be accepting if I came out to her about my ABDL side. Then later that night I decided to tell her. I told her that I want to share a secret with her, however in the next second I completely panicked because I did not know how to put it in such way as to explain what abdl really means to me. Saying I like to wear diapers just does not really encompass what abdl is for me. So I told her that I like to do a certain thing in my free time which is a part of me but which I have been hiding from the rest of the world until now. I then told her to send her some links as that would make it easier for her to understand. We then stayed at the pub for another hour or so and did not talk about it anymore. Then we said goodbye to each other and went home. Right after I came back home, I turned on my computer and saw her online so I did as I promised and I sent her about 10 links with definitions, pictures etc. so she could get an idea. She read the message and her answer was "oh" which she accompanied with a smiley. I was shaking and my heart was beating, that is how nervous I was and I was mad at myself for probably making a huge mistake by coming out to her. Then about 30 minutes later she texted me again saying she finds it interesting and "kind of cute" and asked me if I wanted to come over to her place tomorrow and have a pizza together...

    The very next day I found myself at her place and of course sooner or later the topic switched to previous night. She gave me the warmest smile she ever did and was very open minded about abdl, asking me all sorts of questions such as how long I have been doing it, what it feels like to wear a diaper etc. I told her I was really happy that she knew this about me because sharing it with someone made me feel so much better. We ended upmbeing really open about things and I asked her if she would mind me wearing a diaper the next time we go out. Her answer was that she would have absolutely no problem with it. We comtinued hanging out at her place and listening to music. We then agreed on making a movie week end together at my place which we sometimes do. Knowing she wouldn't mind me wearing around her I asked her if it was ok if I was wearing diapers during the week end. She giggled and said "I see, so you don't have to run away from the movie all the time." We shared a laugh and and I knew I just took an important step in my life as an abdl, I was not alone with this anymore, but I had my best friend knowing in and accepting me very positively.
    😌

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    Congrats man! Sounds like a fun weekend.

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    I know how liberating this can be. The only person I've ever told other than my wife was my best friend from college. I didn't go into much detail other than I was into infantalism. He had asked when I told him I had joined a blog site, this one of course. Anyway, he's writing a book and part of it is our relationship through college and two years after.

    My senior year, my mom sent me to a mental facility when she discovered my make shift diapers and gay porn. He and I discussed this when he phoned last Sunday, and I mentioned to him that my mom had discovered my diapers. I guess I had never put it to him quite that way, and so he asked more about it, such as, did I wear while I was in college. I told him that I only wore when I was back home. His response was to laugh and say, I still love you. I said, "I knew you would." Thing is, I always knew he would love me, no matter what. That's what real friends do. Diapers don't get in the way of love.

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