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    I have or we all have struggled with the thought that what if we never have someone to love us. I have for many years found that wanting and longing for a mummy really hurts, and were not talking about cuts and bruises. I often get extremely sad or depressed because I just want someone...someone to be there, hold my bottle, wake me up with a soothing voice and soft call of my name.....its all.........


    I know I aint the only one suffering, I'm new here but extremely active, since I found this community thing's have been easier, but some things stay the same...
    Last edited by LifeGoesOn223; 19-Jan-2017 at 06:03. Reason: Misleading title, etc

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    It's never too late to meet that special person. Never give up, Love could be just around the corner.

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    Yep It would had been nice


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    Quote Originally Posted by Firegoblin13 View Post
    Yep It would had been nice


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    Yes, very nice....

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    I tend to have the same feelings, and it's awful. In fact, for me it's the hardest part of being AB.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LifeGoesOn223 View Post
    I have or we all have struggled with the thought that what if we never have someone to love us. I have for many years found that wanting and longing for a mummy really hurts, and were not talking about cuts and bruises. I often get extremely sad or depressed because I just want someone...someone to be there, hold my bottle, wake me up with a soothing voice and soft call of my name.....its all.........I know I aint the only one suffering, I'm new here but extremely active, since I found this community thing's have been easier, but some things stay the same...
    The reality is what you are asking for is very one sided. You want someone to love you, change you, hold your bottle, etc... Well, I'm sorry to have to tell you this but the vast majority of people in a relationship are going to want reciprocation. Meaning you need to be willing to love others, hold them, care for them, etc. It can't be entirely about you because very few people are going to want that. Frankly, it's extremely selfish to want that from someone else. Give and you shall receive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KimbaStarshine View Post
    I tend to have the same feelings, and it's awful. In fact, for me it's the hardest part of being AB.
    Tell me about it.........

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spaz View Post
    The reality is what you are asking for is very one sided. You want someone to love you, change you, hold your bottle, etc... Well, I'm sorry to have to tell you this but the vast majority of people in a relationship are going to want reciprocation. Meaning you need to be willing to love others, hold them, care for them, etc. It can't be entirely about you because very few people are going to want that. Frankly, it's extremely selfish to want that from someone else. Give and you shall receive.
    Arrghhh, I understand this but my post was focused one way because its what pains me. I never said that if I had a wife/girlfriend I wouldn't love her back.

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    I wouldn't look too much into it if I were you. It's great when you finally get one (and that's IF you're lucky too) but, well, I won't ruin any surprises...

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    While I fully understand this thread was more of a rhetorical vent than a discusion creator I do feel there is some merit in this.

    The best answer so far is explaining that selfishly seeking someone to simply pander after your fetish needs will lead to severe loneliness. I get that you want a relationship more than simply a fetish vending machine but there is something you must consider.

    If someone is to cater to your desires they need to be somebody very special which I have no doubt you know. Instead of thinking about finding someone who wants to care for you like a baby try asking yourself what kind of person could love me enough to accept me for everything I am. To clarify a little you should focus on finding someone to love and who loves you back before trying to find some who simply wants a live doll to play with. I dont know if you ever have actually had someone change you, but without a solid attraction and affection for each other it is very sterile and almost like a transaction and not the loving fantasy you have inside. You may as well just pay an escort who is ABDL aware to cater for you if you simply seek someone to play mommy.

    Concentrate on finding someone who you can build a future with and naturally you can develop your love life so everyone gets what they need from it. Best of luck, it is a beautiful dynamic if you find the right person.

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