ABDL-friendly dominatrix

i was looking at an escort website and found something interesting and unusual. when i was looking at the profile of one of the dominatrix girls and read the description of her services it said something like:

"i'm a strict domina that will make all your secret fantasies come true. wether you have (lists a bunch of fetishes), or if you're an adult baby boy, a sissy, or want to be spanked and feminized, i'm the one for you"

now i'm wondering what others think of that. is this a good way to fulfil those secret abdl fantasies that so many of us have? i have mixed feelings about this because it would be really hard to get myself to tell her what kind of treatment i want. but at the same time i think that embarrased feeling could add to the whole experience.

what are your thoughts about it? would you be willing to pay 200 bucks to live your fantasies for a couple hours or would you rather buy more diapers?

i really hope this thread isn't too inapproapriate to be posted here..

sounds a bit rough for my personal liking

I don't see the need for myself. For better or worse, many of my fantasies don't require another person. I've been trying to diversify since becoming more involved in the community and having people to play with.

It seems to me that if it's important to a person at this point in the development of our community, it's not that hard to find opportunities to indulge these desires safely with others. Maybe it's hard to get that on a regular basis depending on location but it's available.

Although I don't think there's anything wrong with paying for a professional, it's not important enough for me to pursue it, particularly when there are enough opportunities with friends to satisfy these desires.

Alexia said:

i really hope this thread isn't too inapproapriate to be posted here..

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No, it's not inappropriate. It's a pretty good question. My answer is that it's fine to pay for that service if you've really got a fantasy you want to play out. You do need to tell the person what you want for something like that, so if you have trouble saying it, you'll need to work with them to make it clear (if the person is good, one might hope that she'd know how to interview you through some embarrassment) or you could put together some written instructions while you have time.

I'm personally of the opinion that I wouldn't pay for that, but if you've got the money to do it, well, it's your money and you might have fun so that decision is up to you.

The one thing I would suggest is to be safe in dealing with a person. I don't think that I'd be comfortable dealing with a stranger in such an intimate way as ABDL. I'd encourage you to make sure you have some idea of the person's reputation and some guarantees of your own safety before doing anything.

This isn't inappropriate at all. As ArchieRoni previously stated, it's actually a decent question, and I find it interesting how you felt the need to consult others to make a decision on such a personal and intimate matter. We can offer advice and we can say what we would do in your situation but we are not you and I think you should make the choice based on what you want and not on what any of us say. Clearly though, you desire a second opinion, and that's fine. Just be safe and do what you feel you want to do.

If you are willing to pay that amount to have your fantasies temporarily brought to life then go ahead. I do have to ask though: have you made an effort to reach out to ABDL individuals in real life? To me, doing this would be much more safe, and much more satisfying in the long run. Depending on your location finding ABDL friends in real life might be strenuous to achieve but it's not impossible.

If I were you I would not spend my money on this dominatrix. I'd rather spend a portion of it on diapers then use the rest for things that might be more important. You could even use the remaining amount to pay for driving to meet a nearby ABDL individual online in real life (of course, be safe and be smart if you do this) then expand your social network that way. I must say I would not feel content sharing my ABDL desires with a total stranger; again, I feel as though making a real connection with someone who is in the ABDL community would be much more satisfying.

If you end up choosing to go for it make sure you know what you're dealing with. A lack of necessary precautions could end up in a disastrous event. No matter what you choose to do, I hope things go well, and I think it'd be a good idea for you to build a mini bundle of friends in real life who participate in the ABDL lifestyle, that way when you want your fantasies to be fulfilled you don't have to spend $200 on it.