Idaho said:
About 2 weeks ago I started searching for a counselor that would help me to stop wanting to wear diapers. Yes I know people, it's a part of me but myself I feel that I can't move on in my life with this over my head. So next week will be the 3rd session with my counselor, she is very great and very supportive. I have noticed that I have opened up to her like no one else in my life, not even my own mother where I could tell my mom anything, but I couldn't tell her my about my diapers.
Idaho, I more than understand where you are coming from. I have been in your shoes numerous times and for a great number of years was so frustrated with this part of myself and wanted to be rid of it and move on in my life.
While I am not saying it is impossible to do this, it is certainly highly unlikely. You can reject these feelings and abandon them for years, but ultimately, the deep rooted interests rise up again. I have personally quit all ABDL interests for a 2 and a half year period, but ultimately I found myself again engaged in participation of this interest. What I found was that I am able to control my actions regarding this interest, but the thoughts and strong feelings are deep inside of me and are part of who I am. They are as strongly rooted as my spiritual beliefs and so much a part of who I am.
There was a time I was so ashamed with who I was and I hated myself for having this interest. I felt I was some sort of freak and couldn't stand that I did these things, but yet I still couldn't shake them.
After many years of experience, I have come to realize that these feelings are not a bad thing. They are part of who I am, and part of what makes me uniquely me. I actually and fully now understand that I am a better person because of these feelings. I am so much more able to understand others and I am more compassionate, caring, and have a bigger and broader perspective of humanity that I would otherwise have. It is something that, while I don't share in public settings, I am proud of and see the strengths in myself that exist because of it.
I admire your efforts to talk with others about this. I think that talking with counselors is a good thing, in that they can help you in some ways. Being able to talk to someone about this is a huge benefit, and I applaud ADISC for being here, because this is a forum where you truly can express yourself in a safe manner and you are among others who understand. But, while counselors may be trained in psychology, unless they actually are ABDL themselves, they are not going to be able to fully understand your interests.
I wish you the best in your efforts. But at the same time offer a welcoming hug if you find that you are not able to abandon these interests. You will not be adersely judged by others should you ultimately find you can't fully give up your ABDL interests. Rather, you are among friends here who do care about you as a person and many who have already been through the same things you are experiencing now.
My best advice that I can offer is to take a deep look into yourself, and see yourself for all of the strengths and abilities that you have. Consider the relationship that you have with these strengths and attributes and understand that you are not less of a person for having an ABDL interest. I am not going to tell you to not try to abandon this interest if you truly want to. That is your choice. But I will pray that you may accept who you are regardless if you are successful in abandoning this interest or not.
You are uniquely you and you should be proud of who you are.
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