I'm a married father of two, ages 8 and 12. I'm generally not in favor of discussing recreational diaper use with one's kids. On top of the fact that secrets are like money on the playground, a kid sorta shouldn't have to think about what's under mommy's or daddy's pants. That's private stuff. And regressing and age-play... Is that really something you plan to do in front of your kids? Probably not.
Hopefully not. IMO. And if not, why bring it up?
I generally don't wear diapers around my kids or my wife, even though the latter knows and doesn't seem bothered by it. It's happened once or twice that an afternoon of private diaper-wearing was cut short by the unexpected return of family, and in those cases I've taken the next opportunity to change back into underwear. Diapers are mainly a sexual thing for me, so privacy is important.
Celina said:
My wife is currently pregnant with my first child. She knows I am an ABDL, but doesn't actively participate in it. I am a little worried about trying to fit Little time into my life after having kids. I already struggle with finding time now. I agree that kids shouldn't know about this side of their parents, but how do you find balance with all that? Sounds like some of you still wear around your kids do you think that is a big deal?
Don't worry. It's not your little-time that will suffer. It's
EVERYTHING! Gwaa-ha-ha!! But in all seriousness, the first few months of your child's life are going to be demanding like nothing you've ever known. For my wife and me, the best thing turned out to be a defined schedule of nights off, nights out, etc. We quickly established roles for ourselves. One of mine was Chief Bottle Filler.
Babies' moods, minor health issues, etc., are wildly unpredictable (from a new parent's perspective), so you'll probably find yourself organizing other aspects of your life to make up for it. We certainly did.
Going into being a parent, I was actually rather worried that having to diaper a baby day in and day out was going to send me into a mad binge, and that I'd be found out as a result. (This was years before I told my wife about my fetish). As it turned out, though, putting diapers to work as a parenting tool had a strong moderating effect, and my desire to wear was significantly diminished. Being tired and having relatively little time to myself obviously had an effect too. Once the kids were both potty-trained, though, the desires were back full strength.
Anyway...
Don't go into parenthood expecting the person you are now to completely survive.