I'm a mother of two.
Twins born in July after undergoing infertility treatments.
I love love love them to pieces.
I find less time for myself certainly now, but its not something I mind because my kids mean so much to me.
My priorities have definitiely been altered but I still have a "little side" - and I have no intentions of ever telling my kiddos.
I'm not ashamed, but I think its certainly an 18 and over topic. SO I guess if one day ot came up when they were adults I might discuss it but I highly doubt I would ever feel like I should or wanted to.