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    Question Pacifiers out in the open

    I got back home from Bronycon2016 and got to thinking about wearing my pacifier out in the open. I think I will only do it at dance parties but I would love to wear it on a necklace more often.
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    I wore it at the convention and even had a chance to meet a couple other ABs. So am I the only one who wears their pacifier outside of his or her home?

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    Quote Originally Posted by MatalicPebble View Post
    I got back home from Bronycon2016 and got to thinking about wearing my pacifier out in the open. I think I will only do it at dance parties but I would love to wear it on a necklace more often.
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    I wore it at the convention and even had a chance to meet a couple other ABs. So am I the only one who wears their pacifier outside of his or her home?
    I might be wrong, but wearing a paci around might give people the wrong impression and make them believe you are on drugs.

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    I want to wear it in public but yes the drug assumption may cost me my repution as well as the fact I have a pacifier so it's not worth it but I do take it with me in my bag or pocket. I also want to be able to leave it on my table without being scared that someone is going to see and throw it in the trash!

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    I laughed a little about the drug assumption theory. Forgive me but I never had that problem. I bet if I clipped it to my pants very few would think much of it. Now I had a couple people ask me what it was for at the hotel me and my friends stayed at. I just simply said that it reminds me of the Holy spirit being the pacifier of human souls. It has to do with my ministry that I want to create for both AB/DLs and Kandi Kids. I would never have it in my mouth at least not outside the EDM dance scene.
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    To be honest it hurts me to hide my little side especially because I want people to like me for who I am. I don't want AB/DLs to have to hide. Now proper dress attire is important but I really want to make this world a better place. To bring this to my point; I really don't think people would think much of it unless they are religious or they are immature.

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    I often use pacifiers around my family, even my cousin called me as older toddler.
    Indeed my AB's identity is no secret around my family but not to outsiders. I remain to be my true self, either at work or at school.

    Show your AB's identity around public may feel a little ridiculous to people around, but if you really feel confident to do, then do it. Your freedom in acting is your right, which certainly was not to embarrass yourself in public. I don't know AB's identity for you is secret or not, but don't too demonstrates who you are, because maybe there are some people will look at you strangely.
    Last edited by MaxToddler; 13-Jul-2016 at 12:51.

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    wouldn't it be more worth while to get a skilled silversmith to craft a HEAVILY stylised one that you can use like a commitment (ring) with your partner? Just a ring with a bulbous bit sticking out of it maybe? maybe communicate with someone on the deviant art pages about getting a design made and then popularise it around the abdl community. maybe one design for commitment and relationship and another as a badge of identity? But HEAVILY styalised is the way to go for both options. Maybe as there are numerous sexualities in this community, we could consider a design competition to create the symbols?

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    Thats not a bad idea dlissexy

    I still am going to wear mine to Bronycon Baltimore every year. Its at least my signature. It says its a great accessory. I am even thinking about getting cheapo baby pacifiers just to be a decorative thing to my beads and crochets.

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    I totally with you I really wish it was socially acceptable to suck a Pacifier in public, People smoke in public and no one thinks that's weird, Even though they're getting themselves slowly. But if I walked around the town sucking a pacifier, I'm going to get some really weird looks.

    I see real children sucking pacifiers no there own pasifers and no one pays them attention.

    Anyway I suck openly when driving and and at home and I have my pasifer in my pocket at work. Becouse i find sucking when doing paper work help me concentrate.

    I like your line about the holy spript being the pasifer. I going to use that on the occasions I get caught something at work.

    Hee, hee.

    Thanks



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    Quote Originally Posted by brabbit1987 View Post
    I might be wrong, but wearing a paci around might give people the wrong impression and make them believe you are on drugs.
    I remember reading on something like this. Some people grind their teeth when they're on some form of drug and use a pacifier to prevent it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Themanswifesman View Post
    I remember reading on something like this. Some people grind their teeth when they're on some form of drug and use a pacifier to prevent it.
    Ya, ecstasy. It's a drug that is often used at raves and so it became sort of a thing to have a pacifier at raves. Anyone who knows about that may get the wrong idea. Although it's not like all ravers who wear a pacifier do so because they are on drugs. Many just do it because others do it, and they think the pacifier is cute.

    I used to go to raves, though not very often. Also, never did any ecstasy. I try to steer clear of drugs in general.

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