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    I just feel like a monster I'm hurt I'm upset Aisha just wants to cry!! Fyi Aisha is my name I liked to be called by on here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LittleLettuce View Post
    Why does Aisha feel like a monster?
    Because every time I get into a relationship with a female I get hurt. And I feel like everything is blamed on me. I guess I worded this title wrong I'm sorry everyone!

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    I've never been great with relationships myself, so I can't really offer any advice. I can just hope that things look up for you in the future, because feeling sad is no fun.

    No matter what, having troubles with relationships does not make a person a monster, nor does it make someone a bad person. The only thing that can make a person a monster is actually trying to purposefully hurt people, and generally being a big meanie. That doesn't sound like the case here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by zackiepooh1992 View Post
    I just feel like a monster I'm hurt I'm upset Aisha just wants to cry!! Fyi Aisha is my name I liked to be called by on here.
    No my freand you not a monster, it just relationships are really hard.

    Well I can't find them hard anyway so I've given up on them they have to be my freand and be willing to play with me, if they try and be Dom to soon then the freandship over if they play as equals then the freandship last longer.

    That's how it is for me. But I happy being me and other people have to take me as I am.

    Hope that helps you.

    Sisi

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    Quote Originally Posted by sisi View Post
    No my freand you not a monster, it just relationships are really hard.

    Well I can't find them hard anyway so I've given up on them they have to be my freand and be willing to play with me, if they try and be Dom to soon then the freandship over if they play as equals then the freandship last longer.

    That's how it is for me. But I happy being me and other people have to take me as I am.

    Hope that helps you.

    Sisi
    Thank you so much for your advice!

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    Quote Originally Posted by sisi View Post
    No my freand you not a monster, it just relationships are really hard.

    Well I can't find them hard anyway so I've given up on them they have to be my freand and be willing to play with me, if they try and be Dom to soon then the freandship over if they play as equals then the freandship last longer.

    That's how it is for me. But I happy being me and other people have to take me as I am.

    Hope that helps you.

    Sisi


    Quote Originally Posted by LittleLettuce View Post
    I've never been great with relationships myself, so I can't really offer any advice. I can just hope that things look up for you in the future, because feeling sad is no fun.

    No matter what, having troubles with relationships does not make a person a monster, nor does it make someone a bad person. The only thing that can make a person a monster is actually trying to purposefully hurt people, and generally being a big meanie. That doesn't sound like the case here.
    Aisha really appericates you being here last night

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    Lettuce hopes that Aisha feels more like a good human and less like a monster now. I hope you have a good day!

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    Quote Originally Posted by LittleLettuce View Post
    Lettuce hopes that Aisha feels more like a good human and less like a monster now. I hope you have a good day!
    Aisha is much better and now I do have my mind set on a woman to bad I can't have her for now....

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    Hello Aisha.

    I use to thing the same thing (the only difference was I thought I was just "weird")

    I got so tired of the rejections and the loathsome judgements that I to "dug a big hole to hide in".

    When I finally decided it was time to do something I was 43 and not into the "hook up" routine.

    I joined and on line date service and it turned out to be the best $100 I ever spent. (insert E-Harmony add here)

    The big thing was I got the exact same reactions at first that I got in Real life when I was younger. But then I rejected my first person and realized that it was nothing personal we just did not mix. It was after that that I got a whole new perspective and things went so well. Bottom line is I was introduced to 135 ladies and only started communicating with 20 of them. From there I got more comfortable talking to ladies and realized that I am, was and always will be a "nerd" (a cross between Gilbert and Bogger). From there it was finding some one who liked me for me and like wise.

    So no you are not a monster. There is nothing wrong with you from the information you have shared. Just remember being judged will happen and as long as you are judging someone for likeability reasons there is nothing wrong with that.

    Good luck.

    Egor

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    Quote Originally Posted by egor View Post
    Hello Aisha.

    I use to thing the same thing (the only difference was I thought I was just "weird")

    I got so tired of the rejections and the loathsome judgements that I to "dug a big hole to hide in".

    When I finally decided it was time to do something I was 43 and not into the "hook up" routine.

    I joined and on line date service and it turned out to be the best $100 I ever spent. (insert E-Harmony add here)

    The big thing was I got the exact same reactions at first that I got in Real life when I was younger. But then I rejected my first person and realized that it was nothing personal we just did not mix. It was after that that I got a whole new perspective and things went so well. Bottom line is I was introduced to 135 ladies and only started communicating with 20 of them. From there I got more comfortable talking to ladies and realized that I am, was and always will be a "nerd" (a cross between Gilbert and Bogger). From there it was finding some one who liked me for me and like wise.
    So no you are not a monster. There is nothing wrong with you from the information you have shared. Just remember being judged will happen and as long as you are judging someone for likeability reasons there is nothing wrong with that.

    Good luck.

    Egor
    Hey egor Aisha is glad for your response! I have hide my Aisha side from all of my ex girlfriends will I ever be able to bring that side of me out? And can you explain what you ment judging someone for likeability reasons? Sorry Aisha just did not understand that part

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