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    Good Bye and Thank You So Much

    Hmmm...can't figure out how to close my account. Get overwhelmed with so many instructions in English. Hope someone does not need the space I am using. I'll have to just log off. I'll try to search how when I am not overwhelmed.
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    Good Bye and Thank You So Much

    I came in here to keep working at understanding my husband while finding a way to have a voice in my marriage. Something somewhat close to equal satisfaction. I am doing my best, you all have been so great, but I guess we need the other party for things to work. He is busy behind a curtain of...
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    Diapers and breastfeeding/nursing question

    Well..I was being an optimistic imbecile... :( I was trying to direct this into some sort of equality and mutual fulfilment... he connected it all to just own needs only. Pulled me in the bathroom... 10 second ... and he was done. Holy hell I feel used... I think maybe this is the time to...
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    Diapers and breastfeeding/nursing question

    This was useful and thank you. To bbMe (I never thought about the bra, is it for a nurturing role?)...To CuriousOne...I will look at the articles to see abut the difference. For him the ADHD interferes bc he forgets I am even there. 6 months can go by and he feels bad as he sees me droop like...
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    Diapers and breastfeeding/nursing question

    surprise discoveries Well...talking about this even if shy-like has taken us into unexpected directions. Last night he put his dp on (I figured he was out for the night) but it was still way early. Then I was surprised to see him disrobing my chest quite confidently and latch on... Holy...
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    Diapers and breastfeeding/nursing question

    Nuzzle I mean he snuggle to my breast. Sounds like a start, but you are right, his attention span will be an issue. For me ...I will have to find a balance between encouraging him and my own discouragement. You know?
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    Diapers and breastfeeding/nursing question

    Equal Voices I let him dp me before but it does not feel good to me. My goal is to find something that satisfies both our needs/hopes. To me wearing dp rubs way to close to being humiliating. Adhd makes me somewhat invisible to him, to have to adopt his practices which I can support but not...
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    Diapers and breastfeeding/nursing question

    I am not sure...he says he is a wearer but it is also sexual but often he keeps stuff to himself bc he has been ashamed growing up by others - - - Updated - - - I think what I am looking for is a way to increase our bond He likes to wear them during (but I am not kidding if I say we are...
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    Diapers and breastfeeding/nursing question

    Hi all, This is kind of an intimate topic but I took time to try to build the guts to ask. I have been having a thought for a long time. As you guys might know from previous posts, my husband is ADHD and wears diapers, which I have supported believing that everyone has a right to comfort. We...
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    Marriage/Diapers/ and a healthy sex life

    He is developing a problem...leaking urine and seminal fluid. (The latter happened when he took Stratera over a year ago but had stopped since he switched to his present slow release med) .... There is some usage for comfort, some 'get caught' excitement that does not want to actually get...
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    Marriage/Diapers/ and a healthy sex life

    I am... I hear wisdom here. Ty.
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    Marriage/Diapers/ and a healthy sex life

    Thank you so much...You are right. I know he loves me and he wants to love me way better than he does but it is as if a third creature (ADHD) kept getting in between our communications. He has started medication, which seems to have addressed the H of the ADHD so I can actually get him to stop...
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    Marriage/Diapers/ and a healthy sex life

    I bumped into this forum when I found the thread about practical aspects in marriage of diapers. I am the non wearer and I am not quite sure ...well..how to be. I am from Europe, so please forgive if I do not find the right English some times. My husband told me about them when we met. My...
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