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So i debated putting this in the mature section but i feel it applys here also. If a mod feels its better suited in mature section feel free to move it.
So ive been roommates with this girl i use to work with for almost a year now. She recently broke up with her boyfriend of 4-5 years. I know she has feelings for me she has even confessed to me she did near the end of her relationship when things were not doing well. We are not together yet because she is still working through things and even told me she doesnt want me to end up being her rebound and end up ruining our friendship. In the near future though it is a possibility that we will end up together. The part of this im freaking out about is she doesnt know about my abdl side. And lately been making comments like "i wish people would stop acting like toddlers."
Even though she is probably not talking about me it feels directed at me. Maybe she knows and has said nothing? Maybe im just being paranoid.
So i was hoping to get some advice from people who have told their significant other.
If we do end up together should i tell her right away, should i wait? If so how long?
This is going to be my first relationship. Uncharted territory. Dont want to screw things up. She is very liberal and open minded. She ways says things like "you just keep being you" A small part of me feels she already knows or at least knows i wear diapers and has said nothing as not to embarrass me and is just waiting for me to confess to her. Cause i wear around her all the time (under my pants of course) but there are times i feel my shirt has ridden up just enough for her to see and once or twice she has given me a long hug and her hand has wandered right where my waist line is. And a few times i know she has grabbed dishes from my room and i sometimes accidentally leave the box in my closet open that has my diapers. i honestly don't think that she would mind that im abdl. I could be wrong though.
Idk... Just alot on my mind.. I dont even know where I'd even start on explaining this to her. Kind of freaking a bit. I can tell she really wants to be with me but is probably holding back since she is still processing the break up. Again we have sat down and talked about this so i know she is still processing things. Ive never been in a relationship before so feeling crazy nervous about that also. The fact that she doesn't know (to my knowledge) that im ABDL has me even more anxious.
Any advice is welcome.
So ive been roommates with this girl i use to work with for almost a year now. She recently broke up with her boyfriend of 4-5 years. I know she has feelings for me she has even confessed to me she did near the end of her relationship when things were not doing well. We are not together yet because she is still working through things and even told me she doesnt want me to end up being her rebound and end up ruining our friendship. In the near future though it is a possibility that we will end up together. The part of this im freaking out about is she doesnt know about my abdl side. And lately been making comments like "i wish people would stop acting like toddlers."
Even though she is probably not talking about me it feels directed at me. Maybe she knows and has said nothing? Maybe im just being paranoid.
So i was hoping to get some advice from people who have told their significant other.
If we do end up together should i tell her right away, should i wait? If so how long?
This is going to be my first relationship. Uncharted territory. Dont want to screw things up. She is very liberal and open minded. She ways says things like "you just keep being you" A small part of me feels she already knows or at least knows i wear diapers and has said nothing as not to embarrass me and is just waiting for me to confess to her. Cause i wear around her all the time (under my pants of course) but there are times i feel my shirt has ridden up just enough for her to see and once or twice she has given me a long hug and her hand has wandered right where my waist line is. And a few times i know she has grabbed dishes from my room and i sometimes accidentally leave the box in my closet open that has my diapers. i honestly don't think that she would mind that im abdl. I could be wrong though.
Idk... Just alot on my mind.. I dont even know where I'd even start on explaining this to her. Kind of freaking a bit. I can tell she really wants to be with me but is probably holding back since she is still processing the break up. Again we have sat down and talked about this so i know she is still processing things. Ive never been in a relationship before so feeling crazy nervous about that also. The fact that she doesn't know (to my knowledge) that im ABDL has me even more anxious.
Any advice is welcome.